In a world where transgender women are still too often misrepresented, misunderstood, or simply unheard, Tracee McDaniel stands as a luminous exception, equal parts visionary, advocate, and survivor. With a heart rooted in service and a voice shaped by truth, Tracee has devoted her life to creating space for dignity, justice, and transformation. As the founder and CEO of the Juxtaposed Center for Transformation, Inc., Tracee has become a cornerstone of support for transgender and gender non-conforming people in Atlanta and beyond. Her activism isn’t performative, it’s deeply lived. She has lobbied Congress in Washington, served on municipal working groups, and worked tirelessly to shift public narratives from caricature to compassion.
Born and raised in South Carolina without positive role models to guide her, Tracee’s journey has been one of courage against the odds. Her memoir, Transitions: Memoirs of a Transsexual Woman, is not just a story, it’s a roadmap for resilience. It reflects a woman who never chose the easy path, but always chose the authentic one. Away from boardrooms and community strategy sessions, Tracee finds power in love, celebrating nearly two decades with her spouse, and finds freedom in self-expression, whether in a comfy tee and jeans or as her dazzling alter-ego, Destiny, the semi-retired Mistress of Illusions. To speak with Tracee is to meet someone who has not only weathered society’s harshest storms but emerged with elegance, humor, and the unshakable belief that transformation, on every level, is possible. She is a living reminder that femininity can be fierce, fashion can be political, and advocacy, at its best, begins in the heart.
Monika: Today, it is my pleasure and honor to interview Tracee McDaniel, a passionate American transgender activist and advocate. She is the CEO and Founder of Juxtaposed Center for Transformation, Inc., based in Atlanta, Georgia, and the author of Transitions: Memoirs of a Transsexual Woman. Hello Tracee, and thank you for joining me today!
Tracee: Greetings, Monika. Thank you for your interest in my story.
Monika: You’ve dedicated your life to advocacy and creating change. Could you share a bit about your professional journey and what drives you in your work?
Tracee: I believe that I am doing exactly what I am supposed to be doing as far as my career is concerned. I enjoy helping others. There’s a deep satisfaction that comes from knowing my work contributes to the well-being and empowerment of people in my community. Each life I help improve affirms that I’m walking in my purpose.
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Monika: The Juxtaposed Center for Transformation has become a vital voice in Atlanta’s LGBTQ+ community. What are the center’s current goals and key initiatives?
Tracee: Our current objective is to continue fighting for human rights, equality, and justice for transgender and gender non-conforming people. Our current community initiative includes membership on the Working Group on Prostitution, which was formed by Mayor Kasim Reed to address and make recommendations on how to address street prostitution in our city. We believe in centering the voices of those most impacted and making sure they are included in shaping policy. Our work is grounded in dignity, harm reduction, and lasting social change.
Monika: Writing a memoir is such a courageous and reflective process. What moved you to share your personal story with the world?
Tracee: I was inspired by ex-pro basketball player John Amaechi. I also wanted to tell my story in my own words to possibly inspire a young person identifying as transgender or gender non-conforming. Storytelling has the power to open minds and save lives, especially for those who feel invisible. I wanted to create something that could serve as both a mirror and a roadmap for others navigating similar journeys.
Monika: For transgender women who are preparing to transition, what parts of your life story might serve as guidance or inspiration?
Tracee: Quite frankly, the entire book could be used by those planning to transition. The fact that I was born and raised in South Carolina with no positive role models to emulate, yet I’ve managed to excel and thrive against all odds to persevere over the numerous societal roadblocks and adversities. I want people to see that despite the isolation and barriers, it’s possible to build a fulfilling and purposeful life. My resilience didn’t come from perfection, it came from persistence.
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Monika: Many people find strength in having role models, especially during a life-changing process like transitioning. Did you have any transgender figures who guided or influenced you at that time?
Tracee: Although I was familiar with other trans people during my early transition, I never wanted to emulate them because they weren’t the most positive people to model myself after. That lack of affirming representation was difficult, but it pushed me to become the kind of role model I wished I’d had. Sometimes, you have to be your own light in the darkness before you can shine for others.
Monika: Coming out can be a complex and deeply personal experience. What did that process look like for you, and what challenges did you face?
Tracee: I don’t know if I’d really come out, because I was always effeminate and disinterested in being intimate with females. Anything beyond friendship and sisterhood with females wasn’t happening as far as I was and am concerned. In many ways, my authenticity was always visible, even if I didn’t have the language to define it early on. My presence often spoke before I could, and that came with both freedom and risk.
Monika: The way transgender people are portrayed in the media has a powerful impact on public perception and self-worth. What are your thoughts on the current media representation of transgender individuals?
Tracee: Unfortunately, I am discouraged by the negative images and harmful Jerry Springer–style destructive stereotypes that are currently being used and seen in television, films, newspapers, and books. I am encouraged that these negative portrayals will eventually run their course. We deserve nuanced and affirming narratives that reflect the truth of our lives, not sensationalized distortions. I remain hopeful that trans creatives will continue to rise and shift the cultural lens.
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Monika: What kinds of stories or portrayals would you like to see more of in the future?
Tracee: There is a hunger for authentic stories, and I believe audiences are beginning to demand better. Too often, trans characters are either villains or victims, with no room for complexity or joy. That has a real impact on how society views us and how young trans people see themselves. I want to see more stories that highlight our resilience, intelligence, humor, and humanity. We are writers, producers, directors, and actors, capable of telling our own stories with dignity. Media has the power to educate, liberate, and heal when done responsibly. The change won’t happen overnight, but I believe we are already planting the seeds.
Monika: In your view, how would you characterize the current social and legal environment for transgender women in the United States?
Tracee: I am hopeful that ENDA passes both legislative houses so that transgender people will receive legal protection from employment discrimination. Employment equity is a cornerstone of dignity, and we’re still fighting for that basic right. Until our safety, employment, and healthcare are protected, our liberation remains incomplete.
Monika: Beyond employment rights, what other critical issues are affecting the lives of transgender women today?
Tracee: Despite some progress, trans women, especially trans women of color, continue to face disproportionate levels of violence, homelessness, and systemic injustice. The legislative attacks on trans healthcare and civil rights across several states are deeply alarming. We’re not just debating policy, we’re talking about people’s lives and survival. There needs to be greater accountability for hate crimes and stronger protections at the federal level. Education and visibility can help shift hearts, but we also need legal safeguards that ensure our full participation in society. Transgender people are not asking for special rights, just equal rights, and the freedom to live without fear. I believe that change is possible when our allies stand beside us and speak out against injustice. Every act of advocacy and every conversation counts.
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Monika: Have you been involved in political advocacy, and do you believe transgender women can influence political change?
Tracee: Although I’d previously traveled to Washington, DC, and personally lobbied Congress to support a fully inclusive ENDA and increased HIV/AIDS funding, Juxtaposed Center for Transformation isn’t a political organization. However, I strongly encourage other transgender people to register and vote, in addition to getting involved in politics. If we’re not involved in the process, our needs and concerns will not be met. Political engagement is not just a right, it’s a necessity. Every voice matters, especially those of us who’ve been silenced for too long.
Monika: In the realm of trans advocacy, are there any current leaders whose influence or legacy reminds you of Harvey Milk?
Tracee: No one that I am aware of whom I’d compare to Harvey Milk. That kind of courageous visibility and structural impact is still rare, though deeply needed. Hopefully, the next generation will produce more leaders who blend compassion with fearless political will.
Monika: Let’s talk about love. How has love shaped your journey, and what role does it play in your life today?
Tracee: Love is very important. I am very blessed to have the love, unconditional support, and understanding of my family. I am also fortunate to have been in a monogamous relationship with my spouse going on eighteen years this coming April. That kind of lasting partnership has been a grounding force through life’s storms. Love, both romantic and familial, has helped me heal and thrive in a world that hasn’t always been kind.
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Monika: Fashion is often a powerful way to express identity. How would you describe your personal style, and what kinds of clothing make you feel most like yourself?
Tracee: I like fashion, and I wear what I’m comfortable with. I also enjoy jeans and a T-shirt without makeup when possible. My fashion choices reflect my mood and priorities in the moment, sometimes bold, sometimes casual. Comfort and authenticity always come first for me, no matter the trend.
Monika: What are your thoughts on transgender beauty pageants and their role in the community? Do you see them as empowering or limiting?
Tracee: They’re not for me to personally participate in. However, I see the value and interest others may find in participation. Don’t get me wrong, my alter ego Destiny, Your Mistress of Illusions, is a semi-retired performance artist who appeared as a backup singer for Diana Ross in her music video “I Will Survive,” The Jacksons: An American Dream, and Primary Colors starring John Travolta. I strongly believe that there is a difference between a performance artist and a pageant queen, with nothing being wrong with either preference. Pageants can be a powerful platform for visibility and confidence. While I don’t compete, I applaud those who shine in that space.
Monika: Are there any current projects or creative endeavors you’re excited about? What’s next for you?
Tracee: I will soon be starting to write and publish my next book. This next chapter of writing will allow me to dig deeper into experiences I haven’t yet shared. I hope it will resonate with others and continue to inspire authenticity and resilience.
Monika: Tracee, thank you for sharing your journey with us. Your words have been both powerful and uplifting.
All the photos: courtesy of Tracee McDaniel.
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