Monika: Many transgender women write memoirs. Have you ever considered writing a book about your experiences?
Crissy: No, I haven’t. However, I have always wanted to write a novel about transsexual love. It’s a tragedy. I am so grateful to those women who have written autobiographies. Caroline Cossey has inspired and changed many lives through the story she graciously shared with us all.
Monika: What advice would you give to transgender women who are afraid of transitioning or facing discrimination and hatred?
Monika: What advice would you give to transgender women who are afraid of transitioning or facing discrimination and hatred?
Crissy: It’s the reason I make videos on YouTube. I am filled with such joy at the responses I get from people watching my videos and commenting on how it has changed their lives or given them insight into how life will go on after transitioning. These people need advice, support, and a positive outlook. eeing others like them coping with life as a transgender person is a great way to instill courage and strength.
Monika: How did your own transition experience shape your perspective on fear and doubt?
Crissy: I am so fortunate because transitioning was so easy for me; I had no doubts, fear, or shame. With my family and friends, my attitude was, ‘You’re either with me or not, you choose.’ Fear is a state of mind; one must realize their fears are mostly imaginary. More often than not, family and friends get over it, but they aren’t given the chance.
Monika: Are there situations in transitioning that you feel you cannot advise on personally?
Crissy: Yes. Many who are thinking of transitioning have very serious considerations; some are married with children. This is something I can’t help with, as I was single and have no children; in fact, I’ve never had sex with a woman.
Monika: How do you personally measure whether transitioning is worth it?
Crissy: My own philosophy on this is: If ultimate happiness is a line 10 inches long, and life in your birth gender leaves you at a 3 in happiness, and after transitioning you are at a 5 or 6, it’s worth it because you’re still happier. And getting to a 10, well, most people don’t get there, no matter what their gender is!
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Monika: What are your current goals, and where do you see yourself in the next five to seven years?
Crissy: Presently, I am in college studying Human Resources because I would like to be a consultant for companies, teaching diversity in the workplace as more and more transgender people come out in the workforce. I also wouldn’t mind becoming a millionaire too!! LOL
Monika: Crissy, it has been an absolute pleasure speaking with you. Thank you so much for your time!
Crissy: Thank you, Monika, for this opportunity to express my opinions on this subject. There are never enough articles, blogs, videos, or any type of media on being transgender. It’s vital that we continue to talk and share our experiences and embrace different ideas and points of view. Take care!
END OF PART 2
All photos: courtesy of Crissy Red.
© 2017 - Monika Kowalska
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