Monika: The transgender cause is often discussed within the broader LGBT community. Since the “T” comes last in the abbreviation, do you feel the transgender community is able to make its voice heard and promote its specific concerns within this larger movement? How do you see the balance between unity and highlighting unique struggles?
Ugla: There have definitely been some issues with combining these groups, and even in the last few years there have been additional letters coming after the “T,” such as I, A, P, and Q. I think all groups beyond LG have faced difficulties being fully included in this movement. Here in Iceland, we have made considerable progress in recent years in terms of including more letters, but we definitely have a long way to go. Personally, I think these groups should work together because many of the issues we face stem from the same norms, values, and prejudices. It is often difficult, but I believe that with time, hard work, and awareness-raising, trans people can definitely advance their cause within these broader movements.
Monika: Looking at history and activism, is there anyone in the Scandinavian transgender movement whose influence or actions you would compare to what Harvey Milk achieved for gay rights in the USA during the 60s and 70s? Or is it more of a collective effort?
Ugla: There are definitely many strong individuals who have made their mark on history for trans people. I believe that trans activists from the Nordic countries have long been involved with Transgender Europe, for example, and they are doing amazing work. I think it is harder to pinpoint just a single person, though. It has always been the work of many strong individuals collectively that has driven progress.
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Monika: Are you personally active in politics, or do you participate in lobbying campaigns? In your view, can transgender women make a meaningful impact in political life?
Ugla: I wouldn’t say that I am active in political parties or similar arenas, but I am very engaged when it comes to advocating for legal changes and working on issues affecting transgender people. For example, I am part of a committee established by the Ministry of Welfare in Iceland, which reviews laws concerning LGBTQ people and proposes amendments or new legislation. I believe that everyone can make a difference in politics, and the more diverse the group of people involved, the better. So trans women can definitely have an impact, and I know many have already done so in different parts of the world.
Monika: On a more personal note, could you share what role love plays in your life? How has it shaped or supported you?
Ugla: I don’t often talk about love, and I’ve generally kept these matters private in media and interviews. But of course, love is very important to me, as I think it is for most people. I have an amazing partner who supports me fully, and I feel the same for them. I also have a great family and friends whom I love very much. It is definitely harder to find love as a trans person, often due to prejudice and preconceptions. But I have been very lucky and privileged to have someone by my side.
Monika: Many transgender women write memoirs about their lives. Have you ever considered writing a book yourself, and what would you want to share?
Ugla: I actually have. I’ve started writing a little, and I probably will publish it one day. I just feel like at the age of 23, I might be a bit young to do that, don’t you think?
Monika: Are there any new projects or initiatives you’re currently working on that you’re excited about?
Ugla: I’m always juggling several projects. I have a lot of international collaborations and some exciting things coming up. Currently, I’m working on creating material about trans issues, updating definitions in Icelandic dictionaries, an Icelandic queer podcast, some songs with a newly formed band, and many other things! Stay tuned.
Monika: Finally, what advice would you give to transgender girls who are struggling with gender dysphoria?
Ugla: Oof. There’s a lot I could say. And I know most of this might sound cheesy or cliché, but just be yourselves. Don’t try too hard to fit into a box or meet someone else’s ridiculous standards. You’re not doing this for anyone else, you’re doing it for yourself, and you are beautiful as you are. Be you, for you. If that means taking hormones, having gender reassignment surgery, or other procedures, go for it. Strive to be yourself. Don’t let others tell you what to do or how to live. Find other trans people who are also struggling. Draw strength from each other. Support one another. Create support groups, discussion groups, communities. Nothing is worse than being alone, so seek each other out. Find others, and find yourself. Be you.
Monika: Ugla, thank you so much for taking the time to share your story and insights with us!
END OF PART 2
All the photos: courtesy of Ugla Stefanía Jónsdóttir.
© 2014 - Monika Kowalska
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