Interview with Milene

Every now and then, you meet someone whose story makes you want to put down your coffee, even if it’s a triple Venti latte, and just listen. Today’s conversation is with Milene, a young transgender woman from Canada whose warmth, honesty, and sense of humor shine through every word she writes. She’s not just navigating her transition, she’s sharing it openly with the world through Reddit, turning what began as a personal diary into a source of encouragement for others on similar journeys. Born and raised in Moncton, New Brunswick, in a French-speaking household with her mom, dad, and two younger brothers, Milene has always had a strong sense of family, even when her path in life took unexpected turns. Now living in Halifax, Nova Scotia, she’s balancing her day job at Starbucks, where she’s working toward her coveted “coffee master” black apron, with dreams of entering medical school. Between perfecting latte art and weighing out specialty Arabica blends on a clover machine, she’s also making time for her other full-time calling: being a visible, positive voice for the transgender community. 

Interview with Brianna Tuerff

Few things in life feel as electrifying as watching someone discover who they truly are, and then turning that truth into art you can dance, dream, or headbang to. Today’s guest, Brianna Tuerff, is a living example of that magic. A transgender musician from Phoenix, Arizona, Brianna creates electronic and instrumental metal soundscapes under the alias Brianna and the VSTs, a name that hints at her love affair with synthesizers and digital creativity. Her music blends psychedelic textures, punchy beats, and guitar-driven energy, drawing inspiration from genre-fusing icons like Apollo 440 and Ozric Tentacles. Whether she’s experimenting with trippy instrumentals or layering intricate electronic arrangements, Brianna’s tracks invite listeners to escape reality for a while, a skill she first honed in childhood with a trusty Super Nintendo and a pair of headphones. Brianna isn’t just a musician; she’s a storyteller of transformation. She documents her gender transition openly, both on Reddit (as Neonnimrod) and through her YouTube channel BriannaIsGreat, where she shares everything from music updates to personal reflections.

Interview with Mya Byrne

Some artists defy neat categorization. Mya Byrne is one of them. An award-winning songwriter, poet, actress, and trans/queer activist, Mya’s creative path is as multifaceted as it is fearless. Since making her stage debut at New York City’s Dixon Place in 2014, she has become a vibrant force in music, theatre, and literature, with performances at some of North America’s most celebrated music festivals and a body of work that has resonated far beyond the stage. Her songs have found homes in intimate venues, bustling city streets, and even the ears of children discovering the freedom to be themselves. Her words, in poetry, prose, and song, have been featured in outlets like The Advocate, Time Out, Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, and MSNBC, earning her recognition not just as a performer but as a cultural voice unafraid to speak truth. Mya’s artistry is deeply intertwined with her activism. She has written passionately about the history, visibility, and contributions of transgender artists, from the revolutionary sounds of Wendy Carlos and Laura Jane Grace to the powerful storytelling of Lili Elbe, the Wachowskis, and countless unnamed creators whose works were lost to history.

Interview with Kenna Aloi

In the ever-expanding digital world, there are countless voices sharing their lives, hopes, and struggles. Yet every so often, one of these voices stands out, not because of flashy editing or viral fame, but because of authenticity. Meet Kenna Aloi, a 22-year-old American video blogger whose YouTube channel, Kenna’s World, is less about curated perfection and more about honesty, growth, and connection. Between juggling two jobs and working seven days a week, Kenna somehow finds the energy to document her gender transition, share personal reflections, and invite viewers into her life as though they were old friends. Kenna’s channel functions as a living diary, one that she hopes will not only serve as a record of her own journey but also as a beacon for others navigating their own paths. Whether she’s talking about the realities of hormone therapy, reflecting on her coming out, discussing the challenges of dating as a trans woman, or weighing in on how transgender characters are represented in the media, her approach is refreshingly candid. She prefers to improvise rather than read from a script, believing that unpolished honesty resonates more deeply than anything rehearsed.

Interview with Juli Grey-Owens

Few voices in the fight for transgender equality have carried as much persistence, clarity, and strategic vision as Juli Grey-Owens. For decades, she has been a prominent force in New York’s transgender rights movement, blending grassroots activism with political advocacy to push for meaningful, lasting change. As the Executive Director of the Long Island Transgender Advocacy Coalition (LITAC), she has spent years championing statewide protections for transgender and gender non-conforming people. In addition to leading LITAC, she founded Transgender Management Consulting, an organization dedicated to helping workplaces and institutions become more inclusive, and she serves as Board Co-Chair of TransPAC, New York’s first Political Action Committee focused exclusively on advancing transgender rights. Juli’s activism is grounded in a deep personal understanding of privilege, resilience, and community responsibility. She speaks openly about her own life journey, growing up as a white, male, able-bodied person who was assumed to be cisgender, and how that early socialization afforded her opportunities not available to many. Yet, rather than resting on that advantage, she has used her skills, leadership experience, and determination to break down barriers and open doors for others. 

Interview with Margaux Ayn Schaffer

Few people embody the intersection of artistry, activism, and resilience quite like Margaux Ayn Schaffer. An American multi-media artist, designer, and tireless advocate for transgender rights, Margaux’s work and influence stretch across decades and geographies. In Atlanta, she shaped the conversation from the ground up, serving as editor and designer of INSIGHT, deputy director of AEGIS, and art director and associate editor of Chrysalis Quarterly. She was not only a creative force but also a visible presence, contributing as both a panelist and a planning committee member for the Southern Comfort Conference. When a series of murders of transgender women shook Atlanta, Margaux was appointed to the Mayor’s Gay and Lesbian Task Force, a role that led her to co-author a groundbreaking op-ed in The Advocate with Dallas Denny, boldly asking, “Do Transgender Issues Affect the Gay Community?” She even brought her insights to a national audience as a guest on The Joan Rivers Show.

 

After moving west to Phoenix, Margaux transitioned her talents into Information Technology while remaining firmly anchored in activism. In 2004, she played a pivotal role in the first all-transgender production of The Vagina Monologues, not only performing the haunting piece “My Vagina Was My Village” but also designing the production’s visual identity, posters, keepsake books, and postcards that became part of its legacy. For seven years, she helmed the Arizona Day of Remembrance at the State Capitol, creating a safe and inclusive space for education, mourning, and community outreach. Margaux’s story is one of creative vision meeting unshakable commitment, whether she is shaping cultural narratives, standing at the forefront of social change, or quietly ensuring that an event feels like a place of belonging for all who attend. In this conversation, we journey with her through personal history, public milestones, and the artistry that binds them together.

Interview with Ally

Today, I have the genuine pleasure of speaking with Ally, a vibrant and inspiring transgender woman whose journey of self-discovery and empowerment has been courageously shared with a growing online community. Known on Reddit as Hey_Im_Allison, Ally has spent years documenting her transition with honesty and grace, opening a window into her experiences that resonates deeply with many others navigating similar paths. More recently, she has taken her passion for self-expression and community support to a new platform with her YouTube channel, Allycat Makeup, where she dedicates herself to helping transgender women master the art of makeup. Through her channel, Ally not only teaches cosmetic techniques but also uplifts and encourages countless viewers to embrace their authentic selves with confidence and pride. At 25 years old, Ally embodies a spirit of exploration and creativity. She has traveled extensively, visiting 15 countries, and has nurtured a lifelong love of music, playing guitar for over half her life. In recent months, makeup has become a powerful new passion, a tool not just for beauty but for affirming identity and building community.

Interview with Anastasia-Eva Kristel Domani

Anastasia-Eva Kristel Domani is one of Ukraine’s most visible and outspoken transgender women, an activist, journalist, model, blogger, and entrepreneur whose life blends elegance with fearless advocacy. Born in Kyiv and a graduate of Kyiv National Economic University, she first entered the public eye through modeling before turning a childhood fascination with hosiery into The World of Tights and Stockings from Lady Anastasia-Eva, Ukraine’s first online portal dedicated to hosiery fashion and trends. She is the Founder and President of the "All of Us – Women!" Foundation and leader of the T-Woman – Ukraine initiative group since 2016, organizing social gatherings, cultural events, and safe spaces for transgender people across the country. In a nation with no organization devoted solely to transgender rights, her work is both pioneering and personal, challenging prejudice while advocating for bold projects such as a trans-inclusive fashion studio in Kyiv and a museum dedicated to transgender stories.

 

Anastasia-Eva’s style is a statement in itself, from tailored office wear to vintage-inspired lingerie, merging professionalism with unapologetic femininity. Inspired by icons like Dita Von Teese, she has even designed her own line of tights and stockings, produced in Italy and Poland, worn by European politicians and artists. Politically engaged, she took part in both the Orange Revolution and the Revolution of Dignity, supporting democratic, pro-European reforms, and envisions a future where transgender women can serve openly in all spheres of public life. For her, activism is inseparable from personal fulfillment. She dreams of marriage, walking down the aisle in a white wedding dress and stockings, seeing love as the ultimate counterpart to equality. In this interview, Anastasia-Eva shares her story with candor, from her first steps into public life to her vision for the transgender movement in Ukraine, offering a portrait of a woman determined to live beautifully, bravely, and without compromise.

Interview with Annie Wallace

Annie Wallace is a Scottish actress from Aberdeen whose career and activism have left a lasting mark on British television and the LGBTQ community. Many will know Annie for her powerful portrayal of Sally St. Claire in the long-running Channel 4 soap opera Hollyoaks, a role that not only resonated with audiences but also made history. In 2015, she became the first-ever British transgender actress to be nominated for a BAFTA award, an achievement that underscored her trailblazing presence in the industry. Her influence has been widely recognized, with her name appearing at no.17 on the Rainbow List in 2015 and no.39 on the Pride Power List the following year. In 2016, she was honored with the National Diversity Awards “Celebrity of the Year” award, cementing her status as one of the UK’s most prominent LGBTQ figures. But Annie’s story is about more than accolades. She has worn many hats, from computer science and sound engineering specialist to musician, from political theatre collaborator to television star, and each chapter reveals her dedication, talent, and authenticity. 

 

Her journey as a transgender woman, which began with her transition in 1989, reflects not only courage but also a deep commitment to visibility and representation. Over the years, she has been both a role model and an advocate, lending her voice to campaigns for trans rights and speaking candidly about the progress and challenges facing the community today. What makes Annie’s presence so compelling is her ability to combine sharp intelligence, heartfelt sincerity, and an unwavering sense of justice. On screen, she gives life to Sally St. Claire, a fiercely dedicated headteacher with a heart of gold, while off screen, she continues to champion equality, challenge stereotypes, and inspire those navigating their own journeys. Whether through her acting, her activism, or her music, Annie remains a shining example of how authenticity and resilience can create lasting change. It is with great admiration and excitement that I sit down to talk to Annie Wallace about her life, career, activism, and the stories behind the woman we have come to know both on and off the screen.

Interview with Cecilia (buttercupcece)

Some people live their lives in carefully curated snapshots, sharing only the most polished moments online. Cecilia is not one of those people. Known on Reddit as buttercupcece and on Instagram as cc.skates, she lets her followers in on the raw, unfiltered, and sometimes delightfully chaotic reality of her life. At just 20 years old, she’s already managed to turn her corner of the internet into a mix of skateboarding adventures, candid transition updates, and unapologetic punk energy. Whether she’s carving up the Marquette Plaza, braving icy rock faces, running forest trails, or experimenting in the kitchen, Cecilia’s world is one of movement, rebellion, and self-expression. Currently in the midst of transferring from Northern Michigan University in Marquette to Grand Valley State University in Grand Rapids, Michigan, Cecilia is pursuing a degree in Diagnostic Medical Sonography, a field she admits she’s still figuring out the finer details of. What she does know is that skateboarding is her greatest passion, tattoos are a growing collection, and her personal style leans toward the fearless and unconventional. But beneath the vibrant aesthetic is a story of resilience.

 

Cecilia’s decision to share her transition journey came from a place of gratitude, she once found hope in the online stories of others, and now she’s determined to pay that forward. Her posts have inspired, entertained, and occasionally bewildered her audience, leading to everything from genuine support to quirky messages (including at least one unforgettable “Barbie Doll” request). She speaks openly about the highs and lows of transition, from celebrating the changes brought on by hormone therapy to navigating heartbreak, transphobia, and the ongoing need for trans representation in media. Cecilia doesn’t shy away from difficult topics, whether it’s criticizing political setbacks for trans rights, addressing misconceptions about trans femininity, or questioning beauty standards altogether. At the same time, her humor and self-awareness make even heavy conversations feel approachable. In this interview, we talk about skate culture, love, community, activism, and what it means to stay true to yourself in a world that still struggles to understand difference. Cecilia may not be interested in writing a memoir just yet, but her voice, equal parts witty, grounded, and bold, makes her story unforgettable.

Interview with Anshu Christa Jacobson

Anshu Christa Jacobson is a truly remarkable woman whose life and accomplishments defy convention, transcend borders, and challenge every preconceived notion we might have about what it means to be a warrior, an artist, and a human being. Anshu is the Headmistress of the Budo Ryu Kai, one of the most respected and sought-after instructors in both traditional and eclectic martial arts, and a celebrated member of the World Martial Arts Hall of Fame. She is widely recognized as the only non-Japanese individual to have been awarded a Menkyo Kaiden, the highest license in Japanese martial arts, and Sokeship, signifying her status as inheritor and grandmaster of a koryu bujutsu/ninjutsu tradition. Anshu’s journey into the martial arts is as unconventional as it is inspiring. While many may find her path through the disciplined halls of combat training impressive on its own, it is her unwavering commitment to authenticity, history, and integrity that sets her apart. In 2004, disillusioned by mainstream schools misrepresenting the art of ninjutsu, she founded Budo Ryu Kai to preserve and teach real, traditional ninjutsu, combining her extensive research, personal experience, and deep spiritual insight to create a holistic system that develops the mind, body, and spirit.

 

Today, her teachings resonate on an international scale, with students from across the globe following her instruction and guidance. But Anshu’s talents and passions do not stop at martial arts. She is an openly practicing Wiccan, deeply connected to nature and ancient spiritual practices, and she is equally known for her work in adult entertainment as an escort, courtesan, and erotic dancer, a choice she views as an essential expression of personal freedom, art, and femininity. Anshu embraces every facet of her identity unapologetically, embodying the belief that the human body, its sensuality, and its capacity for expression are forms of art that should never be constrained by society or government. Her life story is also one of courage, resilience, and authenticity. As a transgender woman, Anshu faced immense challenges when she began her transition at the age of 26: the loss of friends, family difficulties, and even a thriving business. Yet, she pursued her truth with unwavering determination, proving that strength and identity cannot be defined by the limitations imposed by others.

Interview with Marie-Pierre Pruvot

Monika & Elaine: Today it is our pleasure and honor to interview Marie-Pierre Pruvot, also known as Bambi, one of the most inspirational transwomen in France, a former showgirl of Le Carrousel de Paris, actress, French literature teacher, the author of two biographical books. Hello Marie-Pierre!

Marie-Pierre: Hello, dear friends.

Monika & Elaine: The French transgender cabaret culture is regarded as one of the most important elements of the history of transwomen in France. Your unforgettable shows at Chez Madame Arthur and La Carrousel attracted a lot of interest, which helped the audience to get acquainted with the trans phenomenon. How do you recollect those years?

Marie-Pierre: I left Algiers at age 18 and I came to Paris to work at Mme Arthur’s and at the Carousel. It was 1953. Coccinelle was 22 years old. She was already famous in France and the French-speaking world.

Interview with Carla Combs

It is always a special privilege to revisit stories that once touched me deeply and to reconnect with the inspiring individuals who shared them. Back in February 2013, I had the honor of interviewing Carla. At the time, Carla was already a remarkable woman whose journey was defined by courage, resilience, and an unwavering commitment to justice. She was a wife, a parent, and a proud grandmother. She had served in the United States Air Force Space Command during Operation Desert Storm before being discharged in 1991 when it was discovered that she was transgender. By 2013, she was working as a software developer in Nashville, studying full-time, and finding her voice as a writer, speaker, activist, and advocate for the transgender community. Carla’s activism had been deeply shaped by tragedy. In 2008, she and her wife, Jaime Combs, were present when a lone gunman opened fire in their church sanctuary, targeting its welcoming embrace of LGBT people. That act of violence, which took the life of a close friend, set Carla on a path of speaking out for those who could not. Her voice became not only personal but also political, carrying the weight of lived experience and the determination to change a world that too often silenced people like her.

Interview with Hannah Abigail

Hannah Abigail’s life is a story of courage, curiosity, and breaking boundaries, both on the ground and in the sky. A German college teacher, skydiving instructor, trans advocate, and YouTube vlogger, Hannah has spent decades living authentically, inspiring others to embrace their true selves along the way. At 55, she embodies a rare blend of intellect, athleticism, and compassion, navigating the world with humor, grace, and an unshakable sense of self. Her roots reach across borders: though she grew up in Cottbus, Germany, Hannah has a deep, personal connection to Poland, where she spent much of her youth learning the language and exploring the country. This early exposure instilled in her a lasting respect for culture, history, and human connection. On the personal front, Hannah has been married to her wife for 33 years, transitioning in the last three. Together, they raised two children, and Hannah now enjoys her role as a grandparent, delighting in the small, humorous moments of family life. Professionally, Hannah teaches English at college, though her academic background spans physics and astronomy, a testament to her wide-ranging curiosity.

Interview with SoSara

There are many different ways to tell one’s story, but few are as raw, immediate, and impactful as speaking directly into a camera and letting the world in. Today’s guest has done exactly that. Known on YouTube as SoSara, she is a Canadian video blogger who documents her transition with honesty, humor, and vulnerability. For her, vlogging is more than just a personal outlet; it’s a lifeline for others who may feel alone in their struggles, and a way to show the world the everyday reality of being a transgender woman and a mother of two. Sara’s channel stands out because she doesn’t sugarcoat the journey. She shares both the highs and the lows, the victories of self-discovery, the painful challenges of navigating public perception, and the quiet moments of resilience that often go unseen. In doing so, she not only educates those outside of the transgender community but also uplifts those within it, reminding them that they are not alone and that happiness and confidence are possible. What makes Sara especially relatable is her down-to-earth approach. She is not trying to be a celebrity or a polished media figure. Instead, she emphasizes being a “regular person” who works hard, raises her two daughters, and strives to live authentically. 

Interview with MJ Rodriguez

Michaela Antonia Jaé Rodriguez, better known to the world as MJ Rodriguez, is an actress, singer, and trailblazer whose career has been defined by authenticity, resilience, and extraordinary talent. Born and raised in Newark, New Jersey, MJ discovered her love for the stage at a young age, immersing herself in performing arts schools and honing the skills that would later propel her into the spotlight. Her breakout role as Angel Dumott Schunard in a celebrated theater production of Rent earned her the 2011 Clive Barnes Award, marking the beginning of a journey that would see her redefine what it means to be a performer in both theater and television. Over the years, MJ has captivated audiences with her magnetic presence and raw emotional power, appearing in acclaimed series such as Nurse Jackie, The Carrie Diaries, and Luke Cage. Each role has allowed her to bring heart, nuance, and authenticity to the screen, earning widespread acclaim and cementing her status as one of the most compelling talents of her generation. 

Interview with Fay Louise Purdham

In a world that often demands conformity, Fay Louise Purdham stands as a luminous testament to the power of authenticity and the courage it takes to live one’s truth. Hailing from the vibrant city of Newcastle, Fay’s story is not just one of beauty queen titles and media spotlights, but of a deeply personal journey woven with resilience, hope, and an unyielding belief in the strength of the human spirit. From the tender age of eleven, Fay began the courageous path of becoming herself, a path marked by quiet determination, moments of hardship, and a steadfast refusal to be defined by others. Without the comfort of clear role models, she forged her own way, becoming her own beacon of hope and strength. This journey of self-discovery was never about simply fitting in, but about shining out, boldly, authentically, and unapologetically. Her nomination as a Positive Role Model at the National Diversity Awards in 2017 was not just recognition of her public achievements but a celebration of the woman behind the titles: an actress, model, spokesperson, and patron to courageous children, whose compassion and advocacy touch the lives of many. 

 

Fay’s participation in the 2015 Miss Transgender UK pageant was more than a contest; it was a platform to uplift others, to share her story, and to inspire those navigating their own paths through life’s complexities. Yet, beyond the glamour of red carpets and the dazzling allure of fashion, Fay finds true beauty in the everyday, in the comfort of a partner’s oversized clothes, in the quiet moments of love and acceptance, and in the fierce hope she carries toward motherhood. Her journey is a reminder that strength and softness can coexist, that vulnerability can be a source of power, and that the most profound transformations are the ones we nurture within. Fay’s story invites us all to reconsider what it means to be brave. It is not about standing on stages or holding signs, but about living fully and lovingly, embracing every part of ourselves, and lifting others as we rise. In her words and in her life, Fay shows us that love, starting with self-love, is the foundation upon which we build our truest selves. As you read this interview, may you find inspiration in Fay’s grace, her honesty, and her unwavering belief that to be truly beautiful is simply to be yourself.

Interview with Beatrice Wong Suet-ling

In the bustling streets of Hong Kong, where neon lights reflect the city’s relentless pace, Beatrice Wong Suet-ling quietly carved out a life that is anything but ordinary. At 36, she balances the precision of IT support work with the imaginative world of filmmaking, all while living openly as a transgender woman in a society that still grapples with acceptance. Beatrice doesn’t see herself as a spokesperson or activist, she’s simply a woman who refuses to hide, sharing her story with honesty, humor, and a touch of daring. From beginning her transition at 31 to creating a documentary about her journey, Beatrice has navigated both the inner labyrinth of self-discovery and the practical realities of healthcare, family support, and social visibility. 

 

Along the way, she has confronted the subtle and not-so-subtle challenges of living authentically, from passing as a woman to finding love, forging friendships, and pursuing creative dreams. Her reflections on mentorship, representation, and resilience reveal a perspective that is at once personal and profoundly instructive for anyone seeking to understand the lived experiences of transgender women in Hong Kong. In this interview, Beatrice invites us into her world, a space where dreams are pursued boldly, identity is reclaimed with care, and life is lived fully, on her own terms. From fashion to love, from societal norms to cinematic storytelling, her journey is a testament to the power of self-acceptance, courage, and creative vision. Now, let’s step into her story and hear directly from Beatrice Wong Suet-ling herself.

Interview with Savannah Burton

Some people move through life quietly, leaving small ripples behind. Others crash in like a comet, leaving trails of inspiration, courage, and sheer brilliance. Savannah Burton is absolutely the latter. Canadian actress, international athlete, and unapologetically herself, Savannah has shattered ceilings and expectations, becoming the first out transgender athlete in Canadian history to compete in team sports on the world stage. And if you think that’s enough to define her, think again, her story is as dazzlingly multi-faceted as a prism catching sunlight. Born in the small town of Corner Brook, Newfoundland, Savannah’s early life may have seemed ordinary at first glance, but her dreams were anything but. In her twenties, she traded the familiar landscapes of her hometown for the bustling streets of Toronto, armed with nothing but two passions: acting and sports. From the moment she first stepped into an acting class, she was hooked, the magic of performance, the thrill of embodying someone else, and the joy of eliciting emotion in others became her heartbeat. 

Interview with Chloe Schwenke

Dr. Chloe Schwenke is a human rights and peacebuilding activist, development practitioner, and academic whose career spans more than three decades and four continents. Chloe is currently the Director of the Global Program on Violence, Rights, and Inclusion at the International Center for Research on Women, where she continues her lifelong mission of advancing justice, dignity, and equality. With over 15 years of professional experience based in the Global South, her work has taken her deep into the realities of international development, conflict transformation, and advocacy for marginalized communities. Chloe’s professional life reflects a rare combination of intellectual rigor and lived experience. She has worked as a senior policy advisor, consultant, and professor, bringing a unique perspective to the intersections of gender, governance, and human rights. Her journey has also been marked by personal courage: coming out as a transgender woman later in life, navigating painful professional setbacks, and ultimately emerging as one of the first four openly transgender appointees in the U.S. government under President Barack Obama. 

Interview with Erin Swenson

Few figures in American religious life embody both courage and compassion as profoundly as Rev. Erin Katrina Swenson. Born in Buffalo, New York, in 1947 and raised in Atlanta, Georgia, Erin grew up with an early awareness of her gender identity, though she kept it hidden within a socially conservative household. After earning her theological education with honors at Columbia Theological Seminary, she was ordained in 1973 as a Presbyterian minister, beginning what would become decades of pastoral service, clinical counseling, and advocacy. For years she carried out her ministry with quiet dedication, teaching, guiding, and healing others, while privately wrestling with her own identity. Her story took a historic turn in the mid-1990s, when, after nearly two decades of ordained ministry, Erin came out as transgender. Rather than walking away from her calling, she sought affirmation from her church for her identity, her name, and her ongoing ministry. The request ignited controversy within the Presbyterian Church (USA), with opponents arguing that her ordination should be revoked. Yet on October 22, 1996, the Presbytery of Greater Atlanta voted 186 to 161 to sustain her ordination, making Erin the first openly transgender minister in a mainline Protestant denomination. The decision was not merely a personal milestone, it was a turning point for the church and for countless LGBTQ+ people of faith who had long felt excluded from religious life.

 

Beyond her groundbreaking role in the church, Erin built a career as a highly respected pastoral psychotherapist. She directed the Center for Pastoral Care in Atlanta, co-founded the Brookwood Center for Psychotherapy, and played a pivotal role in advancing professional licensing legislation for therapists in Georgia. In recognition of her contributions, she received the Distinguished Service to the State Award from the Georgia Association for Marriage and Family Therapy in 1995. She later went on to found the Southern Association for Gender Education (SAGE) and co-moderated More Light Presbyterians, helping to amplify the voices of LGBTQ+ people within faith communities. In 2005, her leadership and advocacy were honored with the Lazarus Award, presented to those who empower and uplift LGBTQ+ individuals. Erin’s life is also marked by resilience in the face of personal and public challenges. She navigated family struggles, divorce, and moments of despair before arriving at a place of authenticity and peace. Even outside of ministry, she was determined to live fully as herself, whether standing at the pulpit, guiding a client through healing, or challenging discriminatory policies, as she did when she fought for her right to play in women’s tennis leagues in Georgia. It is an honor to sit down with Rev. Erin Swenson, a trailblazer, healer, and faith leader who transformed both the Presbyterian Church and the broader conversation about gender and spirituality.

 

Monika: Today it is my pleasure to interview Rev. Erin Swenson, an American licensed psychotherapist, transgender rights activist, and the first-known mainstream Protestant minister to make a gender transition while retaining ordained office. Since turning 60, she has also completed 34 triathlons, including two Half-Ironman events. Hello, Erin!

Erin: Hi Monika. What an honor it is to be interviewed by you. Congratulations on your inspiring work as a transgender activist.

 

Out of Darkness: The Erin Swenson Story (YouTube)

 

Monika: You have such a remarkable background, faith leader, therapist, activist, and triathlete! When I read about your triathlon experience, my first thought was: “Wow, such a strong and determined woman.” Could you tell us a little about yourself and what drives you?

Erin: I think being transgender requires a certain amount of toughness, so my interest in triathlon fits my temperament. I am not particularly fast (although I often win or place in my age group races), and my goal for every race is simply to have fun and cross the finish line vertically. I am 70 years old and find cross-training (swimming, biking, and running) very helpful in maintaining my health and wellness. But I must say, going through a gender transition is much tougher than a Half-Ironman. Living authentically has taught me more about resilience than any sporting event ever could.
Monika: You have been described as a trailblazer for transgender rights in the USA. Looking back, which of the initiatives or efforts you were involved in do you consider the most meaningful or successful?

Erin: Like many of us, I never intended to be an activist. I wanted to transition and carry on with my very satisfying life. I had been ordained as a Presbyterian minister since 1973 and needed to maintain ordination for some very practical reasons. I had no idea that my request of Atlanta Presbytery to confirm my ordination after a gender transition was a “first.” I have spent much of my time helping people understand that a life of faith is not incompatible with being gender different. Over the years, I’ve realized that sometimes simply living authentically can itself become a form of activism. 

Monika: You’ve spent many years counseling transgender people and offering training courses and lectures to a wide range of institutions and organizations. What kinds of questions or concerns do audiences most often bring to you? 

Erin: The most frequent question is how my family responded to my decision. It’s interesting how contemplating gender moves people to almost immediately think about family. This question always gives me an opportunity to discuss how an individual’s gender transition soon becomes a community gender transition, involving family, friends, neighbors, co-workers, faith communities, and more. I always remind people that support systems evolve over time, and relationships often grow stronger when honesty enters the picture.

Erin's website (offline).

Monika: How has the Presbyterian Church, and Protestantism more broadly, responded to the presence and visibility of transgender people within their communities?

Erin: Like many other cultural institutions, this is in a state of flux. My ordination was barely upheld in 1996, and it took a long time for other ministers and candidates for ministry to come forward. Today, there are transgender clergy conferences all over the world.

Monika: Looking back, have you had any personal experiences that made you feel the church has truly changed since the days when your ordination was so fiercely debated?

Erin: I had an interesting experience yesterday: another minister in my Presbytery (kind of like a diocese) called looking for resources for a parishioner. We had a friendly chat and started remembering the time 21 years ago when the Presbytery was deeply embroiled in the question of my transgender ordination. He thanked me for persevering and for helping the church and community begin to open its heart to gender-variant people. I have been given a few awards over the years by various organizations, but nothing made me feel more appreciated than those simple words. It reminded me that sometimes the deepest change happens quietly, one relationship at a time.

Monika: Your transition in 1996 before the Presbyterian Church became a precedent for many other ordained transgender women. Could you share at what age you transitioned and how you personally experienced that journey? 

Erin: I began my transition in 1994 and went full-time in 1995. In some ways, the church case in 1996 could be considered a terminus for my transition, but my experience is that transition is a lifetime project. I believe each new stage of life brings its own lessons about authenticity and identity.

Monika: During the time of your transition, did you have any transgender role models you looked up to? And what did you find most challenging about coming out?

Erin: In the 1990s there were no active public figures, so I turned to Jan Morris (Conundrum) and Renée Richards (Second Serve) for guidance. As soon as I found the transgender community in Atlanta, of course, there were many more role models.

For me, the most influential model has been Dallas Denny, founder of the American Educational Gender Information Service. More than an apt model, Dallas has been a friend and colleague to me over the decades. So I would take this opportunity to honor Dallas. Her wisdom and steady advocacy showed me that community support is as essential as personal courage.

During an HRC Clergy Lobby Days in D.C.

Monika: Are there any transgender women today whom you particularly admire or look up to?

Erin: Everyone! In my work, I get to meet many who are considering or are in transition. Their stories of courage and love are a constant inspiration for me. I think I have the best job in the world. Each story I hear deepens my appreciation for the resilience within our community.

Monika: How do you see the situation of transgender women in the United States today, especially when you compare it with the realities of your own transition back in the 1990s?

Erin: The biggest difference is that knowledge about the transgender experience has spread and become normative. In 1994 people still talked about transsexuals and cross-dressers (transgender was just beginning to gain currency) as if they were rare and strange phenomena. Of course, there was a fair amount of fear and hatred back then, and thankfully this has decreased significantly. At the same time, I know there is still much work to do, especially for the younger generation.

Monika: The transgender cause is often linked with the broader LGBTQ movement. Do you think the transgender community is able to advance its own cause while still remaining united within the LGBTQ family?

Erin: Being oppressed sexual minorities, I believe that all the letters belong together, and that we are all stronger for it. Our struggles and victories are intertwined, and we move forward most powerfully when we stand together.

Monika: What are your thoughts on how transgender people are represented in the media, whether in films, newspapers, or books?

Erin: The portrayal of transgender persons in the media has improved remarkably over the past 20 years. While challenges remain, it is encouraging to see more authentic voices and stories reaching mainstream audiences. 

Monika: Do you personally take part in lobbying efforts? And in your view, can transgender women truly make a difference in politics?

Erin: I do. I helped the Human Rights Campaign on their unsuccessful project to pass ENDA and have served on their Religion Council. I believe that transgender women can bring unique perspectives to public life, which is why our presence in politics matters so deeply.

Monika: What is your opinion on transgender beauty pageants?

Erin: I love them. They create joyful spaces of celebration and visibility, and they allow our community to shine in ways that uplift both participants and audiences.

Transgender Remembrance Day (YouTube)

Monika: Love is such a powerful force in anyone’s life. How would you describe the role and importance of love in your own journey?

Erin: Nothing is more important than love. I am fortunate to have family and friends as active and loving parts of my life. Their presence reminds me daily that love is the foundation of resilience and joy.

Monika: Many transgender women eventually decide to write memoirs about their experiences. Have you ever considered writing such a book yourself?

Erin: Working on it, currently on the second rewrite! Writing has been both a challenge and a healing process for me, allowing me to reflect on how far I’ve come.

Monika: Are there any new projects or exciting opportunities you’re currently working on?

Erin: Yes, I am performing in The Vagina Monologues tomorrow. I am also working on restarting a transfeminine support group at the Phillip Rush Center in the Candler Park area of Atlanta. These projects keep me connected to community and creativity in meaningful ways.

Monika: What advice would you give to transgender women who are struggling with gender dysphoria?

Erin: The most important thing is to accept yourself, then respect yourself, and then learn to love yourself. Once those steps are in place, the rest of the journey becomes far more possible.

Monika: My pen friend Gina Grahame once wrote to me that we should not limit our potential because of how we were born or by what we see other trans people doing. She said our dreams should not end on an operating table, that’s where they begin. Do you agree with this perspective?

Erin: Yeah. I am planning another Half-Ironman in September! I believe Gina’s words capture the spirit of pushing beyond limitations and embracing new beginnings.

Monika: Erin, thank you so much for this conversation, it has been a true honor.

Erin: Thank you, Monika. I appreciate your thoughtful questions, and I am grateful for the opportunity to share my journey.

All the photos: courtesy of Erin Swenson.

© 2017 - Monika Kowalska

  

Interview with Paula Coffer

Some life stories refuse to fit neatly into one chapter. They span oceans, wars, heartbreak, reinvention, and the relentless pursuit of authenticity. The story of Paula Coffer is one of those. She is a retired U.S. Army Finance Officer, a Navy veteran, a world traveler, a public servant, and an author. She served in Vietnam, Germany, Korea, Afghanistan, and across the United States, carrying the weight of responsibility in places where history itself was being written. But beneath the uniform, beneath the duty and discipline, Paula was also carrying another battle, one far more personal, hidden, and dangerous to reveal in her time: the struggle to live openly as herself. At only 17, Paula enlisted in the U.S. Navy, stepping onto ships that would take her to Vietnam for three tours of duty. Later, she accepted a commission as an Army Finance Officer, serving 24 years in uniform. Yet all through those decades of service, the military was not ready to accept someone like her. There was no “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” to hide behind, only the knowledge that if anyone asked, she would have to answer truthfully, and that truth could end her career and brand her “unfit.” Paula carried her secret as she carried out her missions, balancing duty to country, duty to family, and duty to a self she was not yet free to live. When she finally retired in 1994, Paula made the most courageous decision of her life: to pursue gender reassignment surgery, even though it cost her family relationships. It was a devastating price to pay, but it was also the beginning of her true freedom.