Graceful, radiant, and deeply authentic, Nofar Morali is a rising star in the Israeli LGBTQ+ landscape. A model, YouTube vlogger, and vibrant social media presence, Nofar opens her life to thousands, courageously documenting her transition with honesty, charm, and heartfelt vulnerability. Her videos are more than just updates, they're lifelines for others walking the same path, especially those still gathering the courage to begin. Born with a free spirit and a deep love for nature, Nofar carries a quiet strength beneath her playful style and signature crop tops. Whether she’s experimenting with colorful makeup or offering transition advice online, she shines with the message that self-love is not just important, it’s everything. Though her journey hasn’t been without pain, including losing the support of her father, she remains steadfast in her belief that what is truly meant for her will never leave.
Inspired by trans icons like Dana International and moved to give back to the community that once helped her, Nofar now volunteers with LGBTQ+ organizations in Israel and serves as a beacon of hope for others. She speaks openly about the emotional highs and lows of “passing,” her deep gratitude for the effects of HRT, and the transformational power of embracing your truth, even when the world isn’t ready. Nofar’s life is a vibrant reminder that beauty blossoms in courage, that femininity is expansive, and that visibility, when paired with purpose, can truly save lives. As she looks to the future, completing her medical transition, building her career, maybe even writing a memoir, Nofar remains guided by love: love for herself, her community, and the bright, colorful world she’s helping to reshape.
Monika: Today, I have the pleasure and honor of speaking with Nofar Morali, an inspirational Israeli model, YouTube vlogger, social media influencer, and proud transgender woman who shares her transition journey with grace and authenticity online. Shalom, Nofar!
Nofar: Hi Monika! I’m so glad to be a guest on your blog!
Monika: For readers who might be meeting you for the first time, how would you describe yourself?
Nofar: I’m a free spirit who loves nature, and my passion is to share my journey with people on my social media platforms! I believe in living authentically and using my story to help others feel less alone.
Monika: What motivated you to open up about your most personal life experiences on social media?
Nofar: Since the beginning of my transition, I watched many trans YouTubers who helped me a lot throughout my journey, and now that I’m at the point where I can help others, I’m so glad to do it! It feels like I’ve come full circle, and it’s truly empowering to be that source of hope for someone else.
Monika: Do your followers often reach out to you with questions? What do they usually want to know?
Nofar: Yes, I do actually, and it really varies. I definitely get a lot of questions about transitioning tips on specific topics, and that also helps me better understand what kind of content I should create for my YouTube channel. These interactions are meaningful to me because they show how deeply people are searching for guidance and connection.
Monika: Many of us pay a steep price to live as our true selves, losing family, friends, jobs, or our place in society. Did you experience this kind of loss when you came out? What was the most difficult part for you?
Nofar: Definitely, I paid my share of struggles as well. I lost my dad due to my transition, but I wouldn’t call that a loss because I believe that what is meant for me is with me, and what’s not, it's actually good that it's far and gone! It hurt at the time, but it also taught me the importance of surrounding myself with unconditional love.
Monika: Did your family expect your transition, or was it a complete surprise to them?
Nofar: My family wasn’t surprised about my transition because I was always feminine, but the timing of my announcement was very surprising. Looking back, I think they sensed it long before I ever put it into words.
Monika: How do you feel about the physical and emotional effects of hormone replacement therapy so far?
Nofar: I’m so blessed to have such great results from HRT and say thanks to estrogen every day for saving my life in such a beautiful way! It gave me not just a new body, but a renewed sense of peace and identity.
Monika: Trans women are often judged by how well we “pass” or don’t, which can feel like a trap. While cosmetic surgery can help, the pressure to conform is still intense. How do you personally navigate these challenges?
Nofar: Unfortunately, I have to agree on that one, and it’s a bit sad, but we also need to understand that this is a part of who we are as trans people, and to embrace that fully, including all the difficult aspects attached to the term “passing.” My best advice is to be more forgiving with ourselves and always remember that we are not alone, and are surrounded by a big, loving community who shares similar experiences to ours! Learning to accept myself beyond appearances has been one of the most liberating parts of my journey.
Monika: Can you recall the first time you saw a transgender woman represented in the media or met someone transgender in real life?
Nofar: Yes. The first trans woman I ever saw was Dana International. She’s an Israeli singer, and when I heard her songs and my mom told me she was trans, I felt a weird connection to her music, and now I know why, in retrospect. She became a quiet role model for me at a time when I didn’t even know I needed one.
Monika: Dana International has become an icon across many countries. Are there any transgender role models. past or present. that have inspired or influenced you?
Nofar: I really admire any trans person who catches the public eye and does something good for the trans community and brings awareness. Luckily, there are many inspiring trans role models that I can relate to. Each one of them reminds me that visibility truly does matter.
Monika: What is your perspective on the current situation for transgender women in Israel?
Nofar: I think that Israel is the most supportive of LGBTQ+ people here in the Middle East, but still, there’s a lot to improve when it comes to the treatment of trans people. both medically and socially. We have a foundation of acceptance, but there’s still a long way to go toward true equality.
Monika: You clearly enjoy fashion! How would you describe your personal style, and are there any colors, designers, or trends you’re particularly drawn to?
Nofar: I LOVE fashion! I really like to wear crop tops and jean shorts. that’s probably my everyday style. I like colorful clothes. Anything but black for me! Fashion is one of the most joyful ways I express who I am.
Monika: Is makeup something you enjoy experimenting with, or do you prefer to keep things simple?
Nofar: I love expressing myself with makeup. There are days when I feel like being natural, but sometimes I just like to play with colors and create crazy makeup looks. Makeup gives me the freedom to reflect my mood and creativity without limits.
Monika: Do compliments on your appearance mean a lot to you, especially given your journey?
Nofar: I really love being complimented on my looks because I think that I’ve come such a long way to be who I am today. Each compliment feels like a quiet acknowledgment of everything I’ve overcome.
Monika: Do you remember your very first job interview after beginning your transition? What was that experience like?
Nofar: Yes. My first job interview as a woman was at Zara, and I worked there for a few months. It was a valuable step in learning how to navigate the workplace as my authentic self.
Monika: What advice would you give to transgender women who are currently searching for a job and may be facing discrimination or rejection?
Nofar: I would advise searching until you find a place that accepts you as you are, and don’t give up, you will find it eventually. I came to terms with myself that I work best as my own boss. The right environment can make all the difference in how we thrive professionally and personally.
Monika: Are you actively involved in Israel’s LGBTQ+ community, either through volunteering or advocacy?
Nofar: I am! I volunteer in an LGBTQ+ organization here in Israel, and I enjoy every second of it! In addition, many of my YouTube audience are from Israel, so I feel like I influence and help people here as well. Being able to give back and support others has become one of the most fulfilling parts of my journey.
Monika: What role does love, whether romantic, platonic, or self-love, play in your life and personal growth?
Nofar: Love is everything and it’s everywhere, we just need to recognize it in the right places when most needed. Self-love is the most important kind of love; from there on, you can achieve any kind of love that you desire. Once you truly embrace yourself, love flows much more freely from and to you.
Monika: Many transgender women choose to write memoirs to share their life stories. Have you ever considered writing a book about your own journey?
Nofar: Actually, I did because I saw AJ’s book and I was stunned. Maybe in the future! Writing a book would be a powerful way to connect even more deeply with others on similar paths.
Monika: What are your current goals, and where do you envision yourself in the next five to seven years?
Nofar: I’d say I want to finish my medical transition in the coming years and see myself after all of it in the next few years. Also, to be stable in my career and to have achieved my dreams and goals. I’m excited about building a future where I feel both complete and successful.
Monika: What would you say to transgender women who are afraid to take the first step toward transitioning?
Nofar: I’d just say that we only live once, and we should live for ourselves and ourselves only, just go for what is best for our future self. Just do it! Fear is natural, but the regret of not being true to yourself can last a lifetime.
Monika: My pen friend Gina Grahame once said that we shouldn't limit our potential based on how we were born or by comparing ourselves to other transgender people. She believes our dreams shouldn’t end on the operating table, that’s where they begin. What are your thoughts on that?
Nofar: I totally agree. I think that surgeries are a big part of transitioning for many trans people, and they can help us feel complete, but only so we can be in the mindset to achieve our dreams and goals in life itself. It’s not about the procedures themselves, but about the freedom they unlock within us.
Monika: Nofar, thank you so much for sharing your story and insights. It’s been an absolute pleasure speaking with you!
Nofar: You’re so welcome! It was a pleasure to be a guest on your lovely project. I hope my journey can inspire others to live their truth with confidence and joy.
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All the photos: courtesy of Nofar Morali.
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