Monika: Do you think representation in media is improving in a meaningful way?
Tela: All I care about is having our season to be uplifted and empowered as well. I no longer worry about Hollywood passing over authentic trans women for trans roles in films and giving them to non-transgender people. The truth is that it only makes society hungry for the real deal. Thanks to the internet, our stories will be heard, whether it’s on the silver screen, a flat screen, or a Samsung Galaxy phone. “His truth is marching on.” I thank God for change, no matter how it occurs, as long as it’s not counterproductive.
Monika: The transgender movement is often linked with the broader LGBT community. Do you think the transgender community has enough visibility and power to advocate for its own cause within that group?
Monika: The transgender movement is often linked with the broader LGBT community. Do you think the transgender community has enough visibility and power to advocate for its own cause within that group?
Tela: Personally, I hate labels. I only use them because in the South you can’t avoid them, and so that my narrative will not be erased like the thousands of trans women who were silenced in history through forced assimilation for their survival. I truly feel separation is the lie; we are all one. We as people need to find a way to tell different shades of truth without labels, but until then, I’m team trans. I believe that embracing our individuality while standing united strengthens the entire community.
Monika: Have you ever been personally involved in political activities or campaigns?
Tela: No. I prefer to focus my energy on advocacy and community work rather than direct politics.
Monika: What kind of lobbying efforts have you participated in?
Tela: I have only been involved on the HIV and AIDS side of lobbying so far, but who knows what the future holds. I am always open to expanding my advocacy into other areas that can make a difference.
Monika: In your view, can transgender women help shape the political landscape in a meaningful way?
Tela: Absolutely. We were advisors throughout history; that is our role. Things are off-balance because everyone is not yet at the table. I believe that once all voices are included, politics will better reflect the true diversity of humanity.
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Monika: How would you describe the role that love plays in your life today?
Tela: Love is very important. At one time, it was the thing that kept me alive, but now I’ve found a better reason for hope. Hope is the precursor to all things. I would rather lose love completely for a season than give up hope forever, because without hope there is only emptiness and nothingness. Hope gives me strength to face each new day with purpose.
Monika: Many transgender women have written memoirs about their journeys. Have you ever considered writing a book about your own experiences?
Tela: Yes, the obstacle is that I’m struggling with having to unpack all of those emotions. It feels like I’m reliving the trauma from those experiences, and unfortunately, some of the scars haven’t healed yet. I’ve also thought about writing a children’s book. I believe storytelling can heal both the writer and the reader.
Monika: What creative or professional projects are you currently working on?
Tela: I am finishing up my documentary “Disappear or Die: A Southern Black Trans Experience,” and I’m also continuing to build my ministry through my travels while serving on multiple national transgender-focused advisory boards across the country. That keeps me really busy. Each project allows me to share my truth and uplift others along the way.
Monika: What advice would you give to transgender girls who are struggling with gender dysphoria?
Tela: Live one day at a time, never be afraid to live a different dream, learn your history for yourself, and most importantly, seek empowering opportunities. Remember that self-acceptance is a journey, not a race, and every step forward counts.
Monika: Tela, thank you so much for sharing your story and insights with me today.
END OF PART 2
All photos: courtesy of Tela La'Raine Love.
© 2015 - Monika Kowalska
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