Monica P. Mulholland is a writer, activist, and trailblazer whose story continues to inspire people in New Zealand and beyond. Monica is a transgender activist, the president-elect of the Queenstown Rotary Club, and the co-author of the 2016 book ME!: The Gift of Being Transgender, a collaborative work created by seven authors, including Andrea James. This book is not only a deeply personal exploration of transgender lives but also a call to shift the narrative away from stigma and despair toward pride, resilience, and the recognition of transgender identity as a gift rather than a curse. All proceeds from the book are donated to Lifeline New Zealand, an organization providing crucial suicide prevention services and support for LGBTQ individuals, which further reflects Monica’s commitment to saving lives and creating hope within her community.
Monica herself describes her journey as that of a “late bloomer,” beginning her societal transition at the age of 59. She speaks candidly about the transformation she experienced, not only in how she presents herself to the world but in the profound happiness and authenticity that followed. For Monica, transition was not a burden but a liberation, and her story is a testament to the truth that it is never too late to be yourself. Her philosophy of “making transgender normal” guides her work, encouraging others to live openly and authentically, and challenging society to broaden its understanding of gender identity. In addition to her writing and activism, Monica is also a Level 2 teacher in The Art of Feminine Presence, a practice that reconnects women, cisgender and transgender alike, with their inner feminine energy. She has openly shared how these practices helped her replace fear and self-consciousness with confidence, joy, and a deep sense of belonging. Whether discussing identity, spirituality, or fashion, Monica’s approach is filled with humor, honesty, and wisdom, all woven together with the conviction that being transgender is not a limitation but an opportunity for authenticity and growth.
