Isley Reust is an inspiring German video blogger, musician, photographer, and social media personality from California. Isley has been documenting her transition on YouTube, sharing her experiences to support and empower others. She is widely known for her participation in True Trans with Laura Jane Grace, a docu-series exploring the lives of transgender individuals, as well as for her work as a guitarist and songwriter in the band Spectacular Spectacular.
Beyond her music and video blogging, Isley is an avid traveler, adventurer, and creative soul, capturing stunning photography and producing engaging content that resonates with thousands of followers worldwide. Her openness and authenticity have made her a visible and beloved figure in the transgender community.
Monika: Today, we will talk about Isley's journey, career, activism, and personal experiences. Hello, Isley!
Isley: Hi Monika!
Monika: Could you say a few words about yourself?
Isley: I'm German, I play guitar in a new band called Spectacular Spectacular. We have almost finished recording our debut record. I do photography on the side and I'm also a active video blogger.
Monika: What inspired you to share your transition journey on YouTube?
Isley: I wanted to help and inspire others and let them know it's okay to be yourself and that once you do take that step you'll be that much happier and you'll love yourself for who you really are. I'm not going to say it's an easy road, but it's definitely worth the struggle in the end.
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| Traveling. |
I felt that sharing my story could create a sense of community for those who might feel alone in their journey. By being open about my experiences, I hoped to show others that they are not alone and that support is available. I also wanted to challenge stereotypes and misconceptions about transgender people through my content. Seeing the positive impact of my videos on others has been incredibly rewarding and motivates me to keep sharing. Ultimately, my goal is to empower others to embrace their true selves and foster a more accepting world.
Monika: How would you describe your current stage in your transition journey?
Isley: Isley: Hmmm, that's a hard question. I feel pretty far into my transition now, and I'm extremely happy with the way my life is at and headed. I've made significant progress and have embraced my identity fully. Each milestone has brought me closer to living authentically, and I've gained confidence in myself along the way. It's been a transformative experience, both personally and emotionally. I’m excited about the future and the opportunities that lie ahead as I continue to grow and evolve.
Monika: Are you happy with the effects of hormone therapy? Has it met your expectations?
Isley: I'm extremely happy with my results. Hormone therapy really worked in my favor. It's really weird to see pre-transition photos; I feel like that person never even existed or that was a lifetime ago or bad dream.
Monika: Could you share a bit about your childhood? When did you first realize that you were not meant to be a boy?
Isley: I had the earliest memories of knowing I was different (female) at age 4. Once puberty hit, I knew something was really wrong with me and knew deep inside I was female.
I felt very alone and suppressed. I grew up in a small town so I really had nobody I could talk to about how I was feeling. My sister knew about how I felt from a very young age.
Monika: Many transgender girls find school, college, or university to be the most challenging time due to discrimination and social pressures. Did you have a similar experience?
Isley: I was depressed most of high school and dropped out. I started doing crystal meth, cocaine, ecstasy, drinking, and even tried heroin. I overdosed and caught a lung infection as well. Yeah, it was just a bad time. At 18, I started experimenting with my sexuality and tried dating guys as a gay man, but it just felt wrong. Soon after, I decided to accept who I was and be the woman I was meant to be. That decision marked a turning point in my life, and I began to seek out healthier ways to cope with my feelings. I realized that embracing my true self was the key to finding happiness and fulfillment.
Monika: Do you have any transgender role models who inspire you?
Monika: Do you have any transgender role models who inspire you?
Isley: I would say I really think Laverne Cox is such a amazing woman. I also think Jenna Talackova is such a beautiful woman. I'm friends with her on Instagram and I love seeing her photos. She also liked some of my pics lol. I thought that was pretty awesome.
Laura Jane Grace is an acquaintance of mine and she told me that my videos along with others really inspired her and help her come out. Lana Wachowski is such an amazing and talented director, hands down the most talented lady for sure. She seems so genuine and has a beautiful creative heart.
Monika: What do you think was the most challenging aspect of your coming out process?
Isley: For me, the hardest thing was just coming out and telling my family. I've been very lucky and fortunate with the rest of my transition. It took a lot of courage to have that conversation, and I was unsure how they would react. The fear of rejection or misunderstanding weighed heavily on me. Once I did share my truth, it was a huge relief, and I was grateful for their support. However, I know that not everyone has the same experience, and that’s why I want to encourage others to be brave in their journeys.
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| Photo shoot in Los Angeles. |
Monika: How do you perceive the current situation for transgender women in your country?
Isley: I still hear a lot of hate crimes and discrimination, which break my heart, but I think that the USA is making steps and moving forward to become more accepting of the trans community. There are more conversations happening around transgender rights, and visibility is increasing in media and politics. However, there’s still a long way to go in terms of ensuring safety and equality for everyone. It’s crucial that we continue advocating for change and supporting one another. I remain hopeful that as awareness grows, more people will embrace diversity and foster a culture of acceptance.
Monika: We're seeing a growing number of transgender women coming out and gaining recognition. In recent years, some have achieved celebrity status, like Lana Wachowski in filmmaking, Jenna Talackova in modeling, Kate Bornstein in academia, Laura Jane Grace in music, and Candis Cayne in acting. Have you noticed a similar trend in your country?
Isley: I do indeed! It’s inspiring to see more transgender women being celebrated for their talents and contributions across various fields. This visibility helps to break down stereotypes and fosters greater acceptance in society. As more people come forward and share their stories, it creates a ripple effect that encourages others to embrace their identities. I believe that this trend is not only empowering for the transgender community but also enriches our cultural landscape as a whole.
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| Just resting. |
Monika: Are you involved in political activities or lobbying campaigns? In your view, can transgender women make a significant impact in politics?
Isley: I'm not really active in too much politics, but I would like to participate more in the future. I think transgender women can make a difference and have already made a huge leap and difference. It's essential for our voices to be heard in the political arena, as representation matters. By sharing our experiences and advocating for our rights, we can influence policies and create a more inclusive society. I believe that as more transgender individuals step into political roles, we will see positive changes that benefit not just our community but everyone.
Monika: Are you a fan of fashion? What types of outfits do you typically enjoy wearing? Do you have any favorite designers, colors, or trends that inspire your style?
Isley: I'm really big into fashion. I love floral dresses, vintage dresses and jackets. I own a million pairs of shoes lol. I actually have a really bad shopping problem.
Monika: What are your thoughts on transgender beauty pageants?
Isley: I don't really think much of them. To me, 'transgender' is just a word; it's not what makes you who you are. I believe trans women should be able to compete in beauty pageants alongside cis women and just call it a day. We are women, and our identities should be respected as such. Instead of segregating competitions, we should focus on celebrating all forms of beauty and individuality. It's important to challenge the traditional norms of beauty and inclusivity in these spaces, allowing for a broader representation of women.
Monika: How are you involved in your local LGBT community?
Isley: I'm trying to become more involved. Building connections with others has been really rewarding, and I believe that fostering a strong sense of community is essential for our collective growth. I'm excited to see how I can contribute and advocate for our rights together with others.
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| Recording in Los Angeles. |
Monika: What advice would you give to transgender women who are fearful of transitioning early due to concerns about discrimination and negativity?
Isley: Just always be yourself, and it will get better. Transition isn't a walk in the park, but if you stay positive and keep your head up, you'll be so much happier in the end. Surround yourself with supportive friends and communities who understand your journey. Remember that your happiness and authenticity are worth the challenges you may face. It’s okay to take your time and move at your own pace; everyone’s journey is unique. Trust that each step you take brings you closer to living your truth.
Monika: What are your current goals, and where do you envision yourself in the next 5 to 7 years?
Isley: I see myself touring and making music. Living in Germany and married with kids. I want a house near the Alps in the forest and want to take pictures and raise a beautiful healthy family.
Monika: Would you say that you are a happy woman now?
Isley: I've always been a woman!
Monika: Isley, it was a pleasure to interview you. Thanks a lot!
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All the photos: courtesy of Isley Reust.
© 2014 - Monika Kowalska
Some documentaries with Isley Reust:
True Trans With Laura Jane Grace
Producer: AOL Release Year: 2014 In 2012, Laura Jane Grace, the frontwoman of punk rock band Against Me!, made a profound announcement that resonated deeply not just in the music...
