Bambie Nicole is an inspiring American video blogger who has been documenting her transition on YouTube for over a decade. With a bold, sassy, and genuine personality, Bambie uses her platform to encourage others to embrace their journey, showing that with patience and dedication, dreams are achievable. Transitioning since the age of 12 and on hormone therapy for 14 years, Bambie has always known who she truly is. Despite facing challenges and discrimination, she remains a beacon of strength and positivity, offering advice to others navigating their own transitions. A proud advocate for transgender rights, Bambie admires role models like Caroline Cossey, who paved the way for transgender visibility. While not politically active, she’s deeply involved in the LGBTQ+ community and strives to raise awareness and create change. With a love for fashion and a vision for expanding her YouTube channel, Bambie looks forward to growing her impact in the next 5-7 years. For Bambie, true happiness lies in being at peace with herself and the joy of simply being a woman.
Monika: Hello Bambie! It's such a pleasure to have you here on my blog.
Bambie: Hello Monika and World! Thank you so much for taking the time to interview me. I'm truly honored to be a part of this. It's always a great opportunity to share my journey and hopefully inspire others along the way.
Monika: Could you share a little about yourself and how you would describe your personality?
Bambie: Spicy, feminine, sassy, straightforward, honest, loving, caring, daring. I try to live with no fear and embrace life with all its challenges. I'm always striving to stay true to myself and bring a little fun and sass to everything I do.
Monika: What inspired you to start sharing your transition journey on YouTube?
Bambie: I made a decision to begin a YouTube channel in hopes of reaching out to others. To let people know anything you put your mind to is possible. If you work hard, sacrifice, and motivate yourself, your dreams are totally obtainable. I wanted to be a source of encouragement, showing others that they too can achieve their goals. It's not just about the transition, it's about embracing the process of becoming your true self.
Bambie: Spicy, feminine, sassy, straightforward, honest, loving, caring, daring. I try to live with no fear and embrace life with all its challenges. I'm always striving to stay true to myself and bring a little fun and sass to everything I do.
Monika: What inspired you to start sharing your transition journey on YouTube?
Bambie: I made a decision to begin a YouTube channel in hopes of reaching out to others. To let people know anything you put your mind to is possible. If you work hard, sacrifice, and motivate yourself, your dreams are totally obtainable. I wanted to be a source of encouragement, showing others that they too can achieve their goals. It's not just about the transition, it's about embracing the process of becoming your true self.
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| "Life After Transition" (YouTube) |
Monika: Can you share where you are in your transition journey right now?
Bambie: I have been in transition for the past fourteen years on hormone therapy. I have never had any kind of augmentation or plastic surgery. For me, it's been a long, patient journey of self-discovery and growth. I believe every step has shaped me into the person I am today, and I’m grateful for each part of the process.
Monika: Looking back, are you happy with the results of your transition so far?
Bambie: I am totally satisfied with the results of my transition. Patience is crucial! The transition itself is a long word defining a lengthy process. Results take a while to achieve; however, beautiful results are very possible! I’ve learned that it's not about rushing to an end goal, but about embracing every moment of the journey. When you trust the process, the outcomes are more rewarding than you could ever imagine.
Monika: Could you share a bit about your childhood and when you first realized you didn’t identify with being a boy or man?
Bambie: Childhood was rather confusing! I was raised as a female at my godmother’s house; she was in charge of looking after me and my brother. My stepfather was not accepting, so I had to conform to a male role. I was also born XXY chromosomed, so being a "masculine" male was not always possible. I felt like a total tomboy, just ready to go put on a dress. I always knew I was female. I started gravitating toward dolls and feminine apparel as early as two. I came out to my mother as feeling trapped in the wrong body at the age of five. By the age of twelve, I told my mother I was going to become a woman. It wasn’t just about clothes; it was about finally finding a way to express the truth of who I was inside. Even back then, I knew that this was my path.
Monika: For many transgender girls, school, college, or university can be a time of intense discrimination and struggle. Was that your experience as well?
Bambie: I believe we live in a world full of discrimination. I felt as discriminated against as some of my friends of different ethnic groups. I was surely a good laugh at school; however, it never deterred me from going to school as a female. I began attending school as a woman in my sophomore year. It wasn’t easy, but I chose to embrace who I was rather than hide it. I always knew that standing up for myself and staying true to my identity was the key to finding my peace.
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Monika: Do you have any transgender role models who have inspired you along your journey?
Bambie: Caroline Cossey. I actually met her in person several years back. I always thought she was glamorous and stood up for how she felt with no shame. I feel she opened up a lot of doors for trans women to have a voice in such a big world. Her courage to be unapologetically herself is something I truly admire. She showed me that you can thrive in this world, not despite your identity, but because of it.
Monika: What was the most challenging part of your coming out experience?
Bambie: It was always a known fact I was going to become a woman since age twelve. My brother and stepfather had the hardest time adapting to my decision; they eventually came around to it. The most difficult part was facing the fear of losing my family’s acceptance. However, with time and patience, I showed them that my happiness and authenticity were worth supporting.
Monika: What is your perspective on the current situation of transgender women in your country, and how do you see things evolving?
Bambie: I wish all transgender women were able to work without discrimination or express themselves without mockery. We still have a very long road ahead of us as far as society is concerned. While I am happy to see more doors opening for transgender people, the reality is that we continue to face significant barriers. The fight for equality is far from over, but with continued advocacy, I am hopeful that future generations will have a much easier time. The world still has a lot of work to do, but change is happening, and that's something to be proud of.
Monika: We are seeing more and more transgender women come out, and many have achieved celebrity status in their respective fields, such as Lana Wachowski in film, Jenna Talackova in modeling, Kate Bornstein in academia, Laura Jane Grace in music, and Candis Cayne in acting. Do you think it is time for transgender women to be more vocal and visible, now that these role models are paving the way?
Bambie: I think that anytime there is a struggle followed by triumph, there is a powerful story to be told. We also have an easier time sharing our stories and becoming more vocal and visible, especially with the greater impact of social media. The visibility of those who came before us has opened many doors by telling their stories honestly, with no shame about their transgender identity. These pioneers have made it possible for us to step forward with confidence. I believe now is the perfect time for transgender women to continue amplifying our voices, as society begins to listen more attentively.
Bambie: Caroline Cossey. I actually met her in person several years back. I always thought she was glamorous and stood up for how she felt with no shame. I feel she opened up a lot of doors for trans women to have a voice in such a big world. Her courage to be unapologetically herself is something I truly admire. She showed me that you can thrive in this world, not despite your identity, but because of it.
Monika: What was the most challenging part of your coming out experience?
Bambie: It was always a known fact I was going to become a woman since age twelve. My brother and stepfather had the hardest time adapting to my decision; they eventually came around to it. The most difficult part was facing the fear of losing my family’s acceptance. However, with time and patience, I showed them that my happiness and authenticity were worth supporting.
Monika: What is your perspective on the current situation of transgender women in your country, and how do you see things evolving?
Bambie: I wish all transgender women were able to work without discrimination or express themselves without mockery. We still have a very long road ahead of us as far as society is concerned. While I am happy to see more doors opening for transgender people, the reality is that we continue to face significant barriers. The fight for equality is far from over, but with continued advocacy, I am hopeful that future generations will have a much easier time. The world still has a lot of work to do, but change is happening, and that's something to be proud of.
Monika: We are seeing more and more transgender women come out, and many have achieved celebrity status in their respective fields, such as Lana Wachowski in film, Jenna Talackova in modeling, Kate Bornstein in academia, Laura Jane Grace in music, and Candis Cayne in acting. Do you think it is time for transgender women to be more vocal and visible, now that these role models are paving the way?
Bambie: I think that anytime there is a struggle followed by triumph, there is a powerful story to be told. We also have an easier time sharing our stories and becoming more vocal and visible, especially with the greater impact of social media. The visibility of those who came before us has opened many doors by telling their stories honestly, with no shame about their transgender identity. These pioneers have made it possible for us to step forward with confidence. I believe now is the perfect time for transgender women to continue amplifying our voices, as society begins to listen more attentively.
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| "One Wish" (YouTube) |
Monika: What is your opinion on how transgender stories or characters have been portrayed in films, newspapers, or books so far?
Bambie: I am very happy that the transgender community is becoming a more prominent feature in the media. However, I am displeased to see cisgender people portraying transgender roles. I feel the best characters for transgender identities are those who are transgender themselves, as they have truly experienced the emotions and challenges of the transition. It’s crucial for the authenticity of the portrayal, as only someone who has lived through it can fully capture the depth of those experiences. Seeing more trans actors in roles that reflect our lives is a step toward real representation.
Monika: Are you involved in politics or any lobbying campaigns? Do you believe transgender women can make a significant impact in politics?
Bambie: I believe transgender women can make a difference anywhere. While I am not active in politics myself, I am actively participating and lobbying for the transgender community. My greatest ambition is to help educate the wider world about this small but important minority of people. Politics can be a powerful platform for change, and I believe that when trans women are given the opportunity to speak up, they can bring about real transformation. Through awareness and education, we can shape a more inclusive future for everyone.
Monika: Do you enjoy fashion? What kinds of outfits do you typically wear? Are there any particular fashion designs, colors, or trends that you gravitate toward?
Bambie: I love fashion. I tend to dress casually most of the time, either in dressy skirts and tops with heels or black skinny jeans paired with stylish tops and boots. Special fashion designs come into play when I’m filming the "Bambie Show" or modeling for photo shoots. I find that my best colors are greens and earthy tones, which really help bring out my hazel eyes. Fashion is all about expressing yourself, and I enjoy mixing both comfort and style in my wardrobe choices. On days when I want to feel extra confident, I love to wear bold, eye-catching accessories to make my outfit pop.
Monika: What are your thoughts on transgender beauty pageants?
Bambie: I think beauty pageants are a healthy way for the transgender community to participate in a competitive environment and showcase their talents. However, I do think some girls go too far in their pursuit of beauty. I hate the "silicone pumping" parties that some girls partake in to compete in pageants. Beauty should be about self-expression and confidence, not just conforming to extreme standards. I believe pageants can be empowering when they focus on embracing authenticity rather than an overemphasis on physical perfection. Transgender women should be celebrated for who they are, not just how they look.
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Monika: Are you actively involved in your local LGBT community? In what ways do you try to support or engage with others?
Bambie: I am always involved in the LGBT community, hence my starting up a transgender YouTube channel. I intend to be a small voice having an impact on a large world. My channel has become a space where people can find hope, support, and honesty. Even if I reach just one person, I feel I’ve made a meaningful difference.
Monika: What advice would you give to transgender women who are afraid to transition early due to fear of discrimination and hatred? How can they find courage and stay grounded in such a challenging world?
Bambie: You are going to face discrimination and hatred no matter what you decide to do in life. My best advice to new girls is to start off slowly. Take baby steps with the transition because the process of feminizing is lengthy. Do not be in a hurry to transform because it is not a race and anything worth having is worth waiting for. Surround yourself with people who uplift you and understand your journey. And always remember, your path is uniquely yours, embrace it with pride and patience.
Monika: What are your next steps at this point in your journey, and where do you envision yourself in the next 5 to 7 years? Do you have any specific goals or dreams you're working toward?
Bambie: My next step is to become even more active with the LGBT community and make the “Bambie Show” grow from small to larger than life! In the next 5–7 years I can either see myself as a wife to a deserving gentleman, or working full time in the social media. I hope to use my platform to inspire young transgender individuals to live boldly and authentically. I also dream of starting my own non-profit organization focused on trans youth empowerment and support.
Monika: Would you say that you are a happy woman today? Has your journey brought you the sense of peace and fulfillment you were seeking?
Bambie: I can say not only am I a happy woman, but I am also a fulfilled woman. One who is at peace not only with her journey but within herself. No longer on a mission to become a woman, just the joy of being one. I wake up each day with gratitude for how far I've come. Living authentically has given me a kind of happiness I never thought possible.
Monika: Bambie, it was a pleasure to interview you. Thanks a lot!
Bambie: I am always involved in the LGBT community, hence my starting up a transgender YouTube channel. I intend to be a small voice having an impact on a large world. My channel has become a space where people can find hope, support, and honesty. Even if I reach just one person, I feel I’ve made a meaningful difference.
Monika: What advice would you give to transgender women who are afraid to transition early due to fear of discrimination and hatred? How can they find courage and stay grounded in such a challenging world?
Bambie: You are going to face discrimination and hatred no matter what you decide to do in life. My best advice to new girls is to start off slowly. Take baby steps with the transition because the process of feminizing is lengthy. Do not be in a hurry to transform because it is not a race and anything worth having is worth waiting for. Surround yourself with people who uplift you and understand your journey. And always remember, your path is uniquely yours, embrace it with pride and patience.
Monika: What are your next steps at this point in your journey, and where do you envision yourself in the next 5 to 7 years? Do you have any specific goals or dreams you're working toward?
Bambie: My next step is to become even more active with the LGBT community and make the “Bambie Show” grow from small to larger than life! In the next 5–7 years I can either see myself as a wife to a deserving gentleman, or working full time in the social media. I hope to use my platform to inspire young transgender individuals to live boldly and authentically. I also dream of starting my own non-profit organization focused on trans youth empowerment and support.
Monika: Would you say that you are a happy woman today? Has your journey brought you the sense of peace and fulfillment you were seeking?
Bambie: I can say not only am I a happy woman, but I am also a fulfilled woman. One who is at peace not only with her journey but within herself. No longer on a mission to become a woman, just the joy of being one. I wake up each day with gratitude for how far I've come. Living authentically has given me a kind of happiness I never thought possible.
Monika: Bambie, it was a pleasure to interview you. Thanks a lot!
All the photos: courtesy of Bambie Nicole.
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