Alexandria Krause is a young American video blogger who has opened her life to the world through her YouTube channel. Better known to her followers as Alexandria or simply Lexi, she began recording videos as a way to reflect on her own progress with hormone replacement therapy, never imagining that so many people would watch, comment, and connect with her story. What started as a personal archive quickly turned into a growing platform where she shares her experiences, answers questions about her transition, and offers insight into the daily realities of being a transgender woman. Her channel has become a space filled with honesty, humor, and encouragement, showing not only the joyful milestones of transition but also the challenges of body image, public perception, and social expectations.
Lexi’s willingness to speak openly about sensitive topics has made her an important voice for many who are searching for guidance and reassurance. She discusses everything from strange or inappropriate questions she receives online, to her hopes for greater transgender visibility in mainstream media and beauty pageants, to her thoughts on politics and representation. She is also expanding her creative outlets through a new blog and an online community for trans and trans-friendly people, where she continues to provide support and build connections. What makes her work stand out is not only her courage in sharing her journey but also her insistence that the transgender experience should be seen as normal, valuable, and worthy of respect.
Monika: Today it is my pleasure and honor to interview Alexandria Krause, a young American video blogger who documents her transition on YouTube. Hello Alexandria!
Alexandria: Hello Monika! Thanks for having me.
Monika: How would you like to introduce yourself to the readers?
Alexandria: I’m Alexandria, or Lexi, whichever you prefer. I make YouTube videos and vlogs as a hobby, and recently I started my own blog on Blogger. It gives me another creative outlet and a space to share my thoughts more freely. Writing feels different from filming, and I enjoy having both options to express myself.
Monika: Your YouTube channel has become very popular, and you answer many questions about your transition. What has been the most unusual question you have ever received from your viewers?
Alexandria: That’s a tough question, lol. The majority of comments are very positive and supportive, but I guess I could narrow that down to two comments. First, “Will you have sex with me?” and second, “Why don’t you become a model?” I think the second one is stranger because I’ve never thought of myself as pretty enough to model. I struggle with body image sometimes, so being seen that way feels surprising. At the same time, I appreciate that some people think of me like that, even if it doesn’t match how I see myself.
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Monika: What inspired you to begin sharing the details of your transition on YouTube?
Alexandria: Honestly, I didn’t expect anyone to watch it, let alone see it. I made my transition video so that I could reflect and see how far I’ve made it on HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy), but it took off and ended up getting a ton of views, a lot of likes, and very positive comments. It felt amazing to know that something I created for myself could also help others. The unexpected support gave me the motivation to keep sharing.
Monika: How far along are you in your transition at the moment?
Alexandria: I believe I am around six or seven months in on HRT. It has been an exciting journey, and I feel like I’m discovering more about myself every single day. Every change reminds me that I made the right decision for my happiness.
Monika: How do you feel about the results you have seen so far from hormone therapy?
Alexandria: More than satisfied! There are no words to express how happy I am with it. Every little change brings me so much joy and confidence. It feels like I am finally becoming the person I was always meant to be.
Monika: What do you hope other transgender women might learn from your own experiences?
Alexandria: I guess if people could take away one thing from my story, it’s this: when I was younger I always wanted to be a girl, but because of social norms I thought it was taboo and not possible. So why doesn’t everyone learn to not assign gender roles so that it’s not taboo anymore, and we can get a head start on giving young trans persons medical options like HRT or therapy. I believe early access to support and information could save so many young people from years of confusion and pain. My story shows that it is possible to find happiness even when the road feels impossible at first.
Monika: At what age did you begin living openly as a woman, and was the process difficult for you?
Alexandria: I think you are asking when I started seeing myself as a woman and actively making changes to the way I dress and act. I was 18 when I started transitioning socially. It was both exciting and scary, because I had to learn to navigate new situations every day. Over time, I grew more comfortable and confident in my own skin.
Monika: During the early stages of your transition, did you have any role models who inspired or guided you?
Alexandria: The only role model I followed was PRINCESSJULES on YouTube. She made many great videos, including some fashion choices and general tips for trans girls and women. Watching her gave me comfort that I wasn’t alone in what I was going through. She showed me that it was possible to live openly and happily as a trans woman.
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Monika: Are there any transgender women today whom you admire or look up to?
Alexandria: Unfortunately no, but the closest person to that would be Laverne Cox from the Netflix series Orange Is the New Black. I will add one more thing to this, I wish Caitlyn Jenner was smarter about her political affiliations and statements. She has brought attention to trans issues, which is great, but she also endorses Ted Cruz and other Republicans who say it should be illegal for a trans person to use the bathroom of the gender they align with, which is horrible for trans rights as you would imagine. I think representation matters, but it also comes with responsibility. The way we are represented can either open doors or create new challenges for the community.
Monika: What was the most challenging part of coming out for you personally?
Alexandria: The hardest thing about coming out was telling my mom. I don’t know why that was the hardest since I knew she would support me, but yeah. Sometimes it’s scarier to tell the people closest to you than anyone else. Thankfully, her love and acceptance helped me feel stronger about my decision.
Monika: How do you feel about the way transgender characters and stories have been portrayed in films, television, and books so far?
Alexandria: Transparent was really good, Orange Is the New Black is great too, but my favorite was Hit & Miss. It is refreshing to see trans characters being included, even if there’s still progress to be made. I think these portrayals are important because they can shape how society views us. The more authentic stories we see, the more normalized our existence becomes.
Monika: Within the larger LGBT movement, do you feel the transgender community is able to promote its own cause effectively?
Alexandria: I think so, but there really hasn’t been much done about raising awareness, which is disappointing. Our voices are often overshadowed, even within the LGBT umbrella. I believe we need more visibility and leadership roles filled by trans people. The stronger our presence, the more we can influence positive change.
Monika: Do you follow politics closely, and do you think transgender women can make a difference in that field?
Alexandria: I like politics and I try to stay on top of issues and current events. Oddly enough, since I started hormones it has been harder for me to talk about politics with people, I guess because I’m less aggressive? Maybe? I am not sure, but I am less confrontational. I still care a lot about the issues, though, and I believe trans women absolutely can make a difference in politics. Having our voices in those conversations is essential for real change.
Monika: How would you describe your personal style, and what kinds of clothes make you feel most comfortable?
Alexandria: I definitely have a unique style, but I don’t think I can say I love fashion. I don’t keep up with that sort of thing. I normally see something and think, “I MUST HAVE THIS” or “f**k that!” meaning I either love it or hate it, I am very hot and cold. For me, it’s more about expressing my mood than following trends. I like wearing outfits that make me feel confident and authentic, no matter what’s in style.
Monika: What are your thoughts on transgender beauty pageants and their role in visibility?
Alexandria: I am not against them, but I would like to see transgender people integrated into other pageants too. I am not saying to get rid of trans pageants, but I would like to see us be accepted into other places as well. Integration would show that beauty has no single definition. I think true progress will be when we are seen as equals in every space, not just in separate categories.
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Monika: How important is love in your life, and what kind of relationships are you hoping for?
Alexandria: Oh gosh, that’s a tough one for me, haha. I have been looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend for ages. I have met a couple of guys recently, but they only seemed interested in sex. I want something deeper, something built on respect and real affection. Love, for me, is about feeling safe and valued, not just desired.
Monika: Many transgender women choose to write memoirs about their journeys. Have you ever thought about writing a book like that yourself?
Alexandria: Actually I haven’t, but that’s not a bad idea now that you mention it. Writing a memoir could be a way to inspire others and reflect on my own path. I think it would also help me process everything I’ve gone through. Maybe one day I’ll feel ready to take on that kind of project.
Monika: Are you currently working on any new projects that you would like to share?
Alexandria: Actually yes! I just started a blog about two days ago, and it’s got around 200 views already, which is awesome and I love it. If people would subscribe to it, that would be amazing! Also, I have started a Google+ community that is especially for trans and trans-friendly people to join and communicate. It feels great to be creating spaces where people can connect and support one another. I hope it continues to grow and become a safe place for many.
Monika: What advice would you give to transgender girls who are struggling with gender dysphoria?
Alexandria: Find someone you can rely on to be there for you whenever you need it, whether it’s a parent, a friend, or a grandparent. In addition, consider making your own blog to write things out; that helps me when I’m bogged down. Maybe consider going to a psychologist who specializes in gender, that’s what I am doing. Talking about what you feel really can lighten the weight you carry. Remember that you don’t have to face this alone, and it’s okay to reach out for help.
Monika: Alexandria, thank you so much for this conversation.
Alexandria: Thank you for having me! It means a lot to be able to share my story. I hope someone reading this can find encouragement in my words. Knowing that my journey might help others gives me strength, too.
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Email for Trans people who need someone to talk to: AlexandriaKrause95@yahoo.com
All the photos: courtesy of Alexandria Krause.
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