Kristin Beck, born on June 21, 1966, in St. Louis, Missouri, spent the first chapter of her life living a story that would become legendary in the annals of U.S. military history. Growing up with a deep sense of duty, Beck enlisted in the U.S. Navy, eventually rising to become one of the most decorated and respected Navy SEALs of her generation. For two decades, she served in the elite SEAL teams, participating in over 13 deployments, and carving out a reputation for courage, precision, and an unwavering commitment to the mission. Her military career was marked by feats of extraordinary bravery and skill, but Beck’s personal journey, which she had long kept hidden, was one of even greater complexity. Throughout her time in the Navy, Beck struggled with her identity, silently carrying the weight of being transgender while serving in an environment that demanded toughness and conformity. The world she knew was one of secrecy, stoic strength, and the rigid ideals of masculinity that came with being a Navy SEAL. But beneath the surface, there was an identity that had long been suppressed, one that yearned to emerge.
In 2013, after retiring from the military, Beck made a choice that would redefine her life and the way the world viewed her: she came out as transgender, revealing her truth to the world. This was not only a moment of profound personal transformation but also a groundbreaking moment for the military and for transgender people across the globe. As one of the first openly transgender former Navy SEALs, Beck became an icon of courage, not just in battle, but in embracing her authentic self in a world that often refused to make space for people like her. Beck’s decision to share her story was both an act of vulnerability and immense bravery. In her memoir, Transgender Warrior: The Making of a Navy SEAL, she detailed the complexities of her dual identity as a decorated warrior and as a transgender woman. Through her book, Beck opened up about the battles she fought both on the frontlines and within herself. Her journey, however, wasn’t just about personal liberation, it was about using her voice to amplify the struggles of others. She became a fierce advocate for transgender rights, particularly the right of transgender individuals to serve in the military.
Beck’s activism extended beyond just words. She became a tireless spokesperson for equality, pushing for systemic change and for the inclusion of transgender individuals in spaces that had long been closed off to them. She spoke candidly about her experience serving in an institution that often demanded conformity and how the military had to evolve to accommodate people of all gender identities. Her story wasn’t just one of transition, it was one of transformation. Beck’s transition from Chris to Kristin was an act of defiance, a declaration that the fight for freedom and authenticity is never over. As a motivational speaker, she traveled the country, sharing her experiences, her wisdom, and her story of resilience. With each speech, she shattered myths about gender, identity, and strength, proving that being true to oneself is the most courageous thing a person can do. Kristin Beck’s life is a testament to the power of self-discovery, the importance of authenticity, and the relentless pursuit of equality. Her bravery on the battlefield was only matched by her bravery in facing her own truth, and in doing so, she paved the way for countless others to follow in her footsteps. Through her journey, Beck has shown that heroism is not just about what you achieve in the world, but also about the courage it takes to live authentically and with integrity.
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Monika: Hello Kristin! Welcome to my blog!
Kristin: Hi Monika and Monika's fans. I am very happy to have some time with you and share some of my recent happenings here in Washington DC.
Monika: Your coming out as transgender received a lot of attention from the media. Looking back, are you satisfied with how your story was portrayed?
Kristin: Overall, the media has been very gracious concerning my story. The comments on social media, however, are quite another story. My lesson learned is “never read the commentary of a story.” Anderson Cooper was amazing, and I am very happy with the entire media treatment from him and the entire production team at CNN. A quick take on my story and the media is the following: I came out to friends and co-workers at the Pentagon in February of 2013 and started work on a book that had been on the back burner for the last decade. I had to finish a book as the story was being piecemeal doled out to various media sources and didn’t make sense.
Kristin: Hi Monika and Monika's fans. I am very happy to have some time with you and share some of my recent happenings here in Washington DC.
Monika: Your coming out as transgender received a lot of attention from the media. Looking back, are you satisfied with how your story was portrayed?
Kristin: Overall, the media has been very gracious concerning my story. The comments on social media, however, are quite another story. My lesson learned is “never read the commentary of a story.” Anderson Cooper was amazing, and I am very happy with the entire media treatment from him and the entire production team at CNN. A quick take on my story and the media is the following: I came out to friends and co-workers at the Pentagon in February of 2013 and started work on a book that had been on the back burner for the last decade. I had to finish a book as the story was being piecemeal doled out to various media sources and didn’t make sense.
I started to work with a psychologist, and the book was released in June 2013; that is when the media turned on in full force. I had requests from dozens of media outlets but decided that I wanted to just work with Anderson Cooper of CNN. I never wanted to be a “talking head” or turn my story into a talk show sideline, so my decision to only work with CNN worked for me. It was an important choice for me to maintain control over how my story was shared and not let it be watered down or sensationalized.
Monika: It sounds like your book didn’t quite turn out as you had hoped.
Kristin: As it turns out I totally disagree with the book “Warrior Princess” as my story; it turned into a pop-psychology treatise from the mind of a psychologist and most of my writing is blurred. If you read that book you will see the two styles of writing and understand why I am so upset with the resultant book. I am working on a new book called “Lady Valor” and it will be 100% my story and cover everything.
Monika: You were a brilliant soldier. For 20 years, you served in the Navy SEALs and took part in 13 deployments, including seven combat tours. In addition, you were a member of the United States Naval Special Warfare Development Group (also known as SEAL Team Six), a special counter-terrorism unit, receiving multiple military awards. During your service, did you have the opportunity to meet many female soldiers in the Armed Forces?
Kristin: I met many female soldiers who were in the US forces and many other allied countries. Everyone I met during my years of service was exceptional in their commitment to duty. I was honored to serve my country and the journey toward a lasting peace among the nations of this world. I was a soldier and served and wish to continue this service as a civilian, possibly run for office at a later date.
Kristin: I met many female soldiers who were in the US forces and many other allied countries. Everyone I met during my years of service was exceptional in their commitment to duty. I was honored to serve my country and the journey toward a lasting peace among the nations of this world. I was a soldier and served and wish to continue this service as a civilian, possibly run for office at a later date.
I really feel the best politicians we have are the ones who served in the Armed Forces, as they know deep within their souls the meaning behind Liberty and Freedom. I always admired the women who served; their strength and resilience were unparalleled.
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Monika: The media speculated that your story might push the Department of Defense to reconsider its policies on transgender people openly serving in the U.S. military. Did that change actually happen?
Kristin: The Secretary of Defense has recently come out with an announcement that the ban on transgender service in the U.S. military will be reviewed. This is a huge step forward from where we were a year ago. Did my “coming out” help with this step forward in equality for transgender Americans?
My coming out was in magazines and news shows around the world; it was a big splash, and it was at least read or seen by many of our leaders in Washington, D.C. It may have been an influence. Time and history will tell. While the process is still ongoing, I remain hopeful for continued progress.
Monika: Are there any organizations actively lobbying for transgender rights within the U.S. military?
Kristin: There are a few organizations that are lobbying for the rights of the LGBT community. I am not part of any of them and have been working on my own thus far. However, I believe that individual voices and stories can make a significant impact, and that’s been my focus.
Monika: What would you say are the most compelling arguments to convince U.S. generals to accept transgender soldiers in the military?
Kristin: We are capable and want to serve. There are currently hundreds of transgender Americans serving in combat zones right now as civilian contractors or government civilians, side by side with our military. These transgender Americans who are currently serving are doing the job, so can those in uniform. The real issue is not ability, but breaking down outdated misconceptions.
Monika: Whether intentionally or unintentionally, you’ve become one of the prominent figures in the American transgender community. How does that make you feel? Are you currently involved in any projects that advocate for transgender rights?
Kristin: I give motivational speeches and keynote addresses around the country. I will continue to voice my opinions and feelings about who we are as people and hopefully continue the march toward equality and freedom. I truly believe that all of us can be a shining light to those who are in the darkness; we can inform the uninformed and bring peace to those in need; it just takes a spark to get the fire aflame. I remain committed to using my platform to inspire and create lasting change for future generations.
Monika: Are there any organizations actively lobbying for transgender rights within the U.S. military?
Kristin: There are a few organizations that are lobbying for the rights of the LGBT community. I am not part of any of them and have been working on my own thus far. However, I believe that individual voices and stories can make a significant impact, and that’s been my focus.
Monika: What would you say are the most compelling arguments to convince U.S. generals to accept transgender soldiers in the military?
Kristin: We are capable and want to serve. There are currently hundreds of transgender Americans serving in combat zones right now as civilian contractors or government civilians, side by side with our military. These transgender Americans who are currently serving are doing the job, so can those in uniform. The real issue is not ability, but breaking down outdated misconceptions.
Monika: Whether intentionally or unintentionally, you’ve become one of the prominent figures in the American transgender community. How does that make you feel? Are you currently involved in any projects that advocate for transgender rights?
Kristin: I give motivational speeches and keynote addresses around the country. I will continue to voice my opinions and feelings about who we are as people and hopefully continue the march toward equality and freedom. I truly believe that all of us can be a shining light to those who are in the darkness; we can inform the uninformed and bring peace to those in need; it just takes a spark to get the fire aflame. I remain committed to using my platform to inspire and create lasting change for future generations.
Monika: In June 2013, you published your memoir, Warrior Princess: A U.S. Navy SEAL's Journey to Coming Out Transgender, where you shared your personal experiences as a transgender woman. What aspects of your transition do you think could be most relevant and inspiring for other transgender women?
Kristin: Don’t sign a contract with a psychologist who specializes in PTSD and terrorism especially when they say “We don’t need lawyers, trust me and just sign on the dotted line."
Monika: During your transition, did you have any transgender role models you looked up to, or did you find inspiration elsewhere?
Kristin: My role models are Leonardo da Vinci, Albert Einstein, Amelia Earhart, and the inventor Hedy Lamarr. I am sure there are many other women and transgender people that I would call heroes now, as I am learning more and more about the movement, but in the past, I didn’t really have anyone to emulate and thought I was alone.
Kristin: Don’t sign a contract with a psychologist who specializes in PTSD and terrorism especially when they say “We don’t need lawyers, trust me and just sign on the dotted line."
Monika: During your transition, did you have any transgender role models you looked up to, or did you find inspiration elsewhere?
Kristin: My role models are Leonardo da Vinci, Albert Einstein, Amelia Earhart, and the inventor Hedy Lamarr. I am sure there are many other women and transgender people that I would call heroes now, as I am learning more and more about the movement, but in the past, I didn’t really have anyone to emulate and thought I was alone.
I think this happens to many of us; we start our journey and just put our heads down and do our best. I would hope that with the internet and so many publications and groups, the next generations of trans* men and women have information and heroes to aid them on their journey of discovery. It’s important to see that we are part of a long and rich history, even if we didn’t always know it.
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Monika: Coming out is a deeply personal journey, but it can also have a significant impact on those around us. What was the most challenging aspect of your coming out experience?
Kristin: The most difficult thing is the unintended consequences of our personal actions. My coming out caused ripples in my family and friends and other circles that I may never know. Our choices affect so many other people and things; we should all do our best and also understand the many effects of our actions. At the same time, being true to ourselves is one of the most powerful things we can do, even if it comes with challenges we never anticipated.
Monika: Throughout history, human rights movements have fought for the dignity and equality of marginalized groups. Do you believe that transgender rights represent the next major frontier in the fight for human rights?
Kristin: It is the new frontier of human rights, that is a fact. If you wish to see the compassion and understanding of humanity in this day and age, look toward society’s treatment of its “most disenfranchised” group of people. At this time, it is the transgender person, and we are being murdered, beaten to death at a rate of about one per week in the USA. Around the world, you can see the treatment—we are the litmus paper of humanity, and humanity is not doing so well. Despite the challenges, I believe that as more people become aware and educated, change is inevitable, and the fight for equality will continue to gain momentum.
Monika: Do you see political engagement as an important avenue for advancing transgender rights? Are you involved in any lobbying efforts, and do you believe transgender women can bring meaningful change to the political landscape?
Kristin: I am active in politics as much as my current job allows. I hope to run for office in the near future. Anyone with passion can make a difference; whether that difference is positive and lasting depends on the platform, the resolve of that person, and the support of their followers. I believe American politics should be a microcosm of AMERICA, and transgender people are undeniably a part of our country. We should be present in all levels of government, making our voices heard and ensuring that policies reflect the diversity of the nation.
Monika: Has your sense of fashion evolved over time? What kind of outfits do you usually wear, and are there any particular designers, colors, or trends that you love?
Kristin: I love fashion, and up until recently, I kept my fashion sense limited to jeans and Black Sabbath or Harley T-shirts. I did a fashion shoot for Flaunt Magazine and wore Tom Ford originals and other high-end fashion items… I am addicted now, God help me. Doing that fashion show was the coolest experience I have had in recent times; I hope to do more fashion in the future. Exploring different styles has given me a new appreciation for self-expression through clothing.
Monika: Are you currently involved in any new projects or initiatives, particularly those supporting veterans or the transgender community?
Kristin: I am the spokesperson of the 296 Project, which is a non-profit “art therapy” group out of Arlington, Virginia. Many of the warriors coming back from Iraq, Afghanistan, and other places around the world have wounds that are not seen. PTSD is a silent killer and a struggle that so many of us deal with every day. The 296 Project offers our warriors a way to express and come to terms with themselves and the feelings that they endure. I am proud to be part of this project. The 296 Project is sponsoring a solo art show in Arlington on June 6th, 2014, that will benefit many of our returning soldiers. Art has an incredible power to heal, and I have seen firsthand how creative expression can help those who feel trapped by their trauma.
Monika: What advice would you give to transgender women who are struggling with gender dysphoria and self-acceptance?
Kristin: We are all beautiful, we are all worthy, and we all deserve dignity and respect. Keep your head up and endure the difficult times because there are great times coming soon. I love you all as brothers and sisters. Never forget that you are not alone, there is a whole community out there ready to support and uplift you.
Monika: Kristin, thank you for the interview!
Kristin: I am active in politics as much as my current job allows. I hope to run for office in the near future. Anyone with passion can make a difference; whether that difference is positive and lasting depends on the platform, the resolve of that person, and the support of their followers. I believe American politics should be a microcosm of AMERICA, and transgender people are undeniably a part of our country. We should be present in all levels of government, making our voices heard and ensuring that policies reflect the diversity of the nation.
Monika: Has your sense of fashion evolved over time? What kind of outfits do you usually wear, and are there any particular designers, colors, or trends that you love?
Kristin: I love fashion, and up until recently, I kept my fashion sense limited to jeans and Black Sabbath or Harley T-shirts. I did a fashion shoot for Flaunt Magazine and wore Tom Ford originals and other high-end fashion items… I am addicted now, God help me. Doing that fashion show was the coolest experience I have had in recent times; I hope to do more fashion in the future. Exploring different styles has given me a new appreciation for self-expression through clothing.
Monika: Are you currently involved in any new projects or initiatives, particularly those supporting veterans or the transgender community?
Kristin: I am the spokesperson of the 296 Project, which is a non-profit “art therapy” group out of Arlington, Virginia. Many of the warriors coming back from Iraq, Afghanistan, and other places around the world have wounds that are not seen. PTSD is a silent killer and a struggle that so many of us deal with every day. The 296 Project offers our warriors a way to express and come to terms with themselves and the feelings that they endure. I am proud to be part of this project. The 296 Project is sponsoring a solo art show in Arlington on June 6th, 2014, that will benefit many of our returning soldiers. Art has an incredible power to heal, and I have seen firsthand how creative expression can help those who feel trapped by their trauma.
Monika: What advice would you give to transgender women who are struggling with gender dysphoria and self-acceptance?
Kristin: We are all beautiful, we are all worthy, and we all deserve dignity and respect. Keep your head up and endure the difficult times because there are great times coming soon. I love you all as brothers and sisters. Never forget that you are not alone, there is a whole community out there ready to support and uplift you.
Monika: Kristin, thank you for the interview!
All the photos: courtesy of Kristin Beck.
© 2014 - Monika Kowalska
© 2014 - Monika Kowalska
Some documentaries with Kristin Beck:
Lady Valor: The Kristin Beck Story
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Kristin Beck - Warrior Princess
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LisaAnn Estrine - Valor
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