Valerie Lyn Brooks is a multifaceted individual whose life reflects courage, creativity, and dedication to service. A former US Navy Gunner, she has built a remarkable career as a photographer, historian, and veteran advocate, and currently works in disaster recovery. Valerie is also a transgender woman, who recently marked her first year on hormone replacement therapy, embracing the subtle but meaningful growth that has come with her transition. She is deeply committed to advocating for the rights of transgender people and veterans alike, drawing inspiration from trailblazing figures such as Senior Chief Kristin Beck, Dr. Renée Richards, and Fallon Fox. Valerie combines her artistic sensibilities with a love for fashion, seeing it as a form of self-expression, and she channels her creativity into projects that honor the stories of LGBT veterans. With a clear sense of purpose, a dedication to service, and an authentic approach to life, Valerie Lyn Brooks exemplifies resilience, passion, and the power of being true to oneself.
Throughout her journey, Valerie has faced challenges with courage and honesty, finding strength in the support of her family and friends. She observes the evolving social landscape for transgender women in America with both hope and realism, recognizing the ongoing struggles while celebrating progress. Valerie also emphasizes the importance of unity within the LGBT community, while highlighting the need for awareness and education about the unique experiences of transgender women. Her advocacy extends to public dialogue and veteran representation, addressing critical issues such as mental health and suicide prevention. Beyond activism, Valerie finds joy and meaning in art, fashion, and love, using these passions to express her identity and connect with others. Her story is one of service, resilience, and authenticity, inspiring those who meet her to embrace their own journey with courage and confidence.
Monika: Today, I am honored to speak with Valerie Lyn Brooks, a former US Navy Gunner, photographer, historian, and veteran advocate. Hello, Valerie!
Valerie: Good morning, Monika. It’s a pleasure to be interviewed.
Monika: Could you tell us a little about yourself and the work you do?
Valerie: I am a Navy veteran, photographer, historian, and veteran advocate, and I currently work in the field of disaster recovery. I find great fulfillment in helping others during times of crisis and using my skills to make a difference in people’s lives.
Monika: Where are you currently in your transition journey?
Valerie: I am actually approaching my one-year mark on hormone replacement therapy on April 2nd, 2015. This first year has been full of learning and personal growth, and it has given me a deeper understanding of myself.
Monika: How satisfied are you with the results of hormone therapy so far?
Valerie: Yes, I am very satisfied. It feels like a slow process, but in hindsight, the transition has been nothing short of positive for me. I can see the growth and changes in just one year. As subtle as they may seem, where there is pain, there is growth. The experience has taught me patience and the value of celebrating small milestones.
Monika: What has been the most challenging part of coming out?
Valerie: I thought the hardest part of coming out would be that my family and friends might not accept me. However, that was not the case. I am fortunate to have a family that loves me unconditionally. Their support has strengthened my confidence and reinforced the importance of surrounding oneself with understanding people.
Monika: How would you describe the current situation for transgender women in American society?
Valerie: I think it is becoming more mainstream, though we still face challenges. Some lawmakers continue to propose bills that make it illegal for transgender women to use the women’s bathroom. I am also very aware of the high suicide and homicide rates among transgender women. It is crucial for society to address these issues with empathy, awareness, and concrete action to ensure safety and equality.
Monika: What do you think about the general situation of transgender women in American society?
Valerie: I think it’s getting more mainstream. Although we still run into some problems with lawmakers who feel it’s more important to author bills to make it an illegal offense for transgender women to use the women’s bathroom. I also think of how high the suicide and homicide rates are among transgender women.
Monika: Are there any transgender women whose work or achievements you particularly admire and respect?
Valerie: Of course! One person who comes to mind is Senior Chief Kristin Beck. Not only do I respect her service in the Navy, but I also admire the courageous and exhausting work she does advocating for transgender rights. She has been crucial in opening conversations within the military community. I strongly believe that the only sensible solution is to allow transgender people to serve in the military if that is their wish. Her example shows how bravery and dedication can inspire change in even the most traditional institutions.
Monika: Are there other transgender women in sports or other fields who inspire you?
Valerie: Absolutely. I am inspired by women like tennis player Dr. Renée Richards and MMA fighter Fallon Fox, who have broken down barriers for transgender athletes. One thing all these brave women share is a commitment to service and perseverance in their respective fields. Their courage motivates me to continue advocating for transgender visibility and equality. It is amazing to see how their achievements challenge stereotypes and expand opportunities for everyone in the community.
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| Valerie as a US Navy Gunner. |
Monika: How do you feel about the way transgender stories and characters have been portrayed in films, television, and literature so far?
Valerie: I loved the film Transamerica, even though the lead role was not played by a transgender woman. Laverne Cox is fabulous and full of class in Orange Is The New Black in her role as Sophia Burset. I would love to see more transgender people hired to play these parts. Representation matters greatly, and seeing authentic portrayals can help educate audiences and foster understanding of transgender experiences.
Monika: Within the broader LGBT community, do you feel that transgender issues are given enough attention, or do they risk being overlooked?
Valerie: I believe there is strength in unity, but I also feel that the goals within the LGBT movement have shifted over time. The transgender community has often lagged behind in achieving the same societal acceptance that lesbian, gay, and bisexual movements have. I identify as both a lesbian and a transgender woman, and this dual identity shapes how I see the challenges we face. Greater awareness and understanding are needed to ensure that transgender voices are not marginalized within the community.
Monika: Have you encountered misunderstandings about transgender people, even from within the LGBT community?
Valerie: Yes, sometimes I hear from lesbian ciswomen who ignorantly say, “They don’t date men in dresses.” This can be hurtful, especially coming from people within the same LGBT umbrella. Considering that transgender women do not always wear dresses, I find that statement preposterous. I often have to explain the differences between a cross-dresser, a transvestite, and a transgender woman. These conversations can be challenging, but they are also an opportunity to educate and foster greater empathy and respect.
Monika: Are there leaders or activists in the American transgender community whose work reminds you of the impact Harvey Milk had on gay rights in the 1960s and 70s?
Valerie: Dr. Jamison Green, President of WPATH, comes to mind. There are also many others and organizations actively fighting for LGBT rights and access to proper healthcare. Their dedication continues to inspire new generations of advocates.
Monika: Do you participate in political activities or lobbying efforts, and do you believe transgender women can influence politics?
Valerie: These days, my politics have no party affiliations, but they are strongly focused on representing the veteran community. I have worked with many veteran service organizations over the years and understand that all veterans, whether part of the LGBT community or not, need proper representation and care. Advocacy and engagement are essential to ensuring that veterans’ voices are heard and their needs addressed. The suicide rate among veterans averages twenty-two per day, which is deeply concerning. I think transgender women have already made a difference by engaging in public dialogue and raising awareness about these issues. We are steadily marching forward to be heard, and I believe our efforts will continue to create meaningful change.
Monika: Fashion can be an important form of self-expression. Do you enjoy fashion, and if so, what styles or colors do you gravitate toward?
Valerie: I do love fashion. I am also an artist, so fashion represents the unique character of an individual. It is a statement that says, “This is me!” I have always loved black, blues, and lately pinks. I adore leopard prints and accessorize with necklaces featuring a skeleton key, which I believe represents a part of the past and technology that is no longer common. Fashion allows me to express my creativity and individuality while celebrating my identity.
Monika: How important is love in your life, and in what ways does it motivate you?
Valerie: Love is very important. I also believe it inspires us to wake up and feel motivated to continue living. Whether it is the love of another, a passion, or life experiences, it is a shared human longing. Love teaches empathy and connects us in ways that make life meaningful and fulfilling.
Monika: Many transgender women write memoirs about their experiences. Have you ever considered writing your own book?
Valerie: Honestly, I never thought about writing one. Come to think of it now, I would definitely have an interesting story to tell. Sharing my journey could inspire others who are navigating their own paths.
Monika: Are you currently working on any creative or professional projects?
Valerie: I am currently putting together a photography project with a fellow veteran. We came up with the idea of photographing LGBT veterans. Simply put, it is about service and capturing the unique stories of those who have served. This project allows me to combine my passion for art with my commitment to advocacy.
Monika: What advice would you give to transgender girls who are struggling with gender dysphoria?
Valerie: Be true to yourself. Life is too short to be unhappy, and we hold the power to change things. Embracing your authentic self is a courageous act that can transform your life and inspire those around you.
Monika: Valerie, thank you so much for sharing your time and insights with us.
Valerie: Thank you, Monika. It was an honor and a pleasure. I hope my experiences can help others feel seen and empowered.
All the photos: courtesy of Valerie Lyn Brooks.
© 2015 - Monika Kowalska
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