Interview with Jossy Yendall

She moves through the world like a flicker of golden light, eyeliner sharp, lips painted red, her heart stitched together with equal parts vintage lace and sheer determination. From Gateshead, UK, where the skies often blush grey and the Tyne whispers stories of grit and survival, emerges a woman whose life is anything but ordinary. Jossy Yendall is not just a performer, a model, or a pageant queen, she is an anthem of reinvention. Raised among the quiet streets of northeast England, she dared to imagine a life lit by stage lights, sequins, and spotlights. Where others saw limitations, she saw costume changes. Where others whispered "not yet," she replied with "watch me." With every drag show, with every perfectly arched brow and jazz note sung, Jossy built herself, layer by shimmering layer. Inspired by the haunting elegance of Greta Garbo and the raw charisma of Bette Davis, she has never been content with blending in. She turns heads not with noise, but with presence. Not with perfection, but with truth. She began, like so many trans women, in the margins, in the in-betweens, the not-yets, the what-ifs.

 

But even as the world tried to edit her story, Jossy wrote her own narrative in lipstick and resilience. From amateur dramatics to Drag Idol, from working the tills to walking the catwalk, her life has been a defiant waltz toward visibility. Winning Miss Transgender UK wasn't just a crown, it was a reclamation. And yet, beyond the pageantry and performance lies a tender vulnerability. Jossy speaks candidly of transition, of the aching in-between spaces, of friendships that anchored her and nights that tested her. She shares her dreams not just of fame, but of love, the kind that holds you gently and sees you completely. In this interview, she opens her heart with candor, humor, and grace. She is a woman who celebrates her femininity loudly but loves quietly, who knows the power of beauty but treasures kindness even more. From the soul of Gateshead to the stages of Northern Pride, Jossy Yendall reminds us all: There is nothing more radiant than a woman who finally becomes herself.

Interview with Angelique Munro

Angelique Munro’s life story reads like a powerful script, filled with moments of pain, transformation, triumph, and hope. Born and raised in Chicago, she came into a world that did not yet have the words to understand who she truly was. As a child, she faced abuse and rejection simply for daring to say “I am a girl,” yet she carried within her a spark that no cruelty could extinguish. That spark grew into resilience, a fierce determination to live authentically, and eventually a dazzling career on the stage. For over two decades, Angelique has been one of Chicago’s most respected female impersonators, a performer who has captivated audiences with talent, humor, and charisma. Her artistry opened doors to opportunities across the United States, from the bright lights of New York and Las Vegas to national television appearances on The Ricki Lake Show, The Tyra Banks Show, and E! Entertainment Television. But Angelique is far more than a celebrated entertainer.

 

She is a survivor who turned her hardships into fuel for advocacy. Having walked through abuse, depression, and the long shadow of self-doubt, she emerged with a deep compassion for others and a commitment to giving voice to those often silenced. As a transgender woman and HIV/AIDS advocate, she has inspired countless people through her courage and honesty, and as a motivational speaker she shares her story not to dwell on the past but to shine a light toward a better, kinder future. Her life is a reminder that authenticity, though sometimes costly, is also liberating. Today, Angelique continues to reinvent herself, moving from the nightclub stage to the television screen with projects that blend entertainment with empowerment. She knows the power of visibility and the importance of being true to oneself, and she carries that message into everything she does. Meeting her is to meet a woman who embodies strength, vulnerability, and grace in equal measure.

Interview with Reena Gibson

Reena Gibson is a British writer, musician, and transgender advocate whose life embodies courage, creativity, and perseverance. She is the author of The Long Road Ahead (2015), a strikingly honest autobiography that documents her experiences through two transitions while capturing the many layers of her life beyond gender identity. Originally written as a personal diary to help her come to terms with her past, the book evolved into a published work that highlights not only her struggles but also her triumphs and determination to live authentically. For Reena, sharing her story became an act of both self-healing and inspiration for others who might find strength in her words. Alongside her writing, Reena is the lead singer and guitarist of the Birmingham rock band Milestone Road, where she channels her passion for music into performance and storytelling. Her musical journey began in her teenage years, inspired by artists like Tiffany, Debbie Gibson, and Olivia Newton-John, and later rekindled through the example of Laura Jane Grace, whose courage in living openly as a transgender woman gave Reena renewed motivation to continue her own career in music. Since forming Milestone Road in 2011, she has embraced her role not only as a performer but also as the creative core of the band, proving that music remains a vital thread in her life’s fabric.

Interview with Brittney Kade

Brittney Kade is a vibrant and inspiring young transgender video blogger who has been documenting her gender transition on YouTube since the age of fourteen. From a very young age, Brittney knew she was different, preferring to play with girls' toys and expressing a strong sense that she was born in the wrong body. Born male and named Brandon, Brittney struggled with depression and bullying, which eventually forced her to leave school. With the loving support of her mother Staci and stepfather Andy, and after starting hormone therapy at 15, Brittney has found happiness and confidence in her transition. Her family has watched her blossom into a self-assured, compassionate young woman who now stands up for herself and others. Brittney has become a visible and powerful voice for trans youth, sharing both the challenges and triumphs of her journey.

 

With a flair for glamorous style and a passion for beauty, her channel is a blend of heartfelt storytelling, makeup tutorials, and candid Q&As about life as a transgender teen. Growing up without many trans role models, Brittney decided to become the kind of inspiration she once needed. Her mission is to create visibility, offer relatable content for other trans girls navigating their transitions, and promote self-love and authenticity. Despite facing obstacles in the early stages of her transition, navigating insurance and healthcare on her own, she has emerged with grace, resilience, and confidence. Brittney’s unapologetically bold fashion sense and commitment to self-expression have made her a standout presence in the online trans community. She is a firm believer in trans representation in media, the importance of inner beauty, and the power of loving oneself. While she’s keeping her upcoming projects under wraps, she continues to focus on growing her channel and being a supportive, empowering figure for others.

Interview with Katherine Cummings

Katherine Cummings is one of the most influential and respected voices in the Australian transgender movement, a woman whose life and work have touched countless others. A librarian by profession and a sailor at heart, she has always combined intellect, discipline, and a sense of adventure with her deep commitment to justice and equality. Since transitioning in 1986, she has been at the forefront of advocacy for transgender rights, first as a determined individual writing letters, fighting for recognition, and setting legal precedents, and later as part of Sydney’s Gender Centre, where she became the information worker and long-serving editor of its quarterly magazine Polare. Through this work, she gave a platform to stories, experiences, and resources that shaped the community and provided support at a time when public understanding was still very limited. Her autobiography Katherine’s Diary (1992), which grew out of a series of candid and groundbreaking radio talks for ABC Radio National, remains a cornerstone of transgender literature in Australia and beyond. In it, she documented not only her own transition but also the emotional and social challenges of living authentically at a time when visibility often came at a great personal cost.

Interview with Katie Bainbridge

Katie Bainbridge is a writer, blogger, and author of the autobiographical book Flowers and Tightropes, published in 2015. She is a 47-year-old transgender woman who was born in Scotland and now lives in Cornwall. She balances her writing career with part-time work as an administrator, and she has also self-published two poetry collections, The Book of Mirrors and The Book of Windows. Katie’s journey into womanhood began at the age of 38 when she started hormone therapy, facing serious health challenges and navigating systemic obstacles that tested her resilience and determination. Her autobiography emerged organically from creative evenings with her friend and housemate, during which she began writing pieces about her life, eventually transforming those reflections into a full-length book.

 

Through her work, Katie hopes to provide guidance, support, and inspiration to other transgender women, offering a realistic perspective on the struggles and triumphs of the transition process. She is deeply committed to advocacy, believing in the power of transgender voices to make a difference in politics and society, and she continues to explore new creative projects, including a science fiction novel that presents a fresh challenge for her writing. Beyond her literary pursuits, Katie embraces life with authenticity, encourages self-love and personal growth, and champions living true to oneself, surrounded by supportive people while letting go of judgment and negativity. Her story is a testament to perseverance, courage, and the transformative power of embracing who you truly are.

Interview with Lucia Richardson

Lucia Richardson is a Canadian application architect, writer, and blogger whose work spans technology, human behavior, and advocacy for transgender rights. She holds a BSc in Computer Sciences with a minor in Informatics Management from the University of Moncton and has built an extensive career in IT, working for government agencies, financial institutions, and consulting firms across Canada and the United States. Currently a Senior Application Architect at Farm Credit Canada, she combines her expertise in system architecture with a passion for artificial intelligence and innovation. In 2015, she published her autobiography, Lucia: The Life of a Transgender Person, sharing her journey of self-discovery, transition, and personal growth with the world. Through her writing and advocacy, Lucia emphasizes the importance of planning, support networks, and inner transformation, offering guidance and inspiration to transgender individuals navigating their own paths. Beyond her professional and advocacy work, she cultivates a deep appreciation for fashion, self-care, and love, while exploring new projects that bridge technology, science, and human experiences.

 

Her story reflects resilience, authenticity, and the belief that embracing one’s true self is a gift worth pursuing. Lucia’s journey is marked not only by professional achievement and personal courage but also by a commitment to giving back to her community. She actively mentors and supports other transgender individuals, sharing insights from her own experiences to help them navigate challenges with confidence and self-respect. She is deeply aware of the social stigma and misconceptions faced by transgender people and works to bridge understanding between the transgender community and the general public. Her dedication extends to practical acts of kindness, such as tutoring a terminally ill young person in computer programming, reflecting her belief in empowering others to achieve independence and fulfillment. Through these efforts, Lucia demonstrates that advocacy, compassion, and personal growth are intertwined, showing that the impact of living authentically reaches far beyond oneself.

 

Monika: I am thrilled and honored to have the opportunity to interview Lucia Richardson today, a Canadian application architect, writer, and blogger, as well as the author of the autobiographical book Lucia: The Life of a Transgender Person published in 2015. Welcome, Lucia!

Lucia: Hi Monika, thank you so much for having me. It’s always a pleasure to have a voice and to be able to share my story, and I really appreciate you taking the time.
Monika: Can you tell us a bit about your educational background and early career?

Lucia: I graduated from the University of Moncton in 1999 in New Brunswick, Canada, with a BSc, majoring in Computer Sciences and minoring in Informatics Management. My mother tongue is French, and I have been working as an IT professional for more than 18 years. I have worked for the government and for various financial and insurance companies across Canada and the United States, including Sunlife, TIAA CREF, Fintrac, and Farm Credit Canada.

Monika: What kind of roles and responsibilities have you taken on in your IT career?

Lucia: I have also worked as an IT consultant for OAO Technologies, CGI, and Keanes Canada, now known as NTT Data, as well as with Pason Inc. in the oil industry and AT&T in the telecom sector. I consider myself a passionate technologist and hold a TOGAF certification in the field of Enterprise Architecture. For the past six years, I have served as a Senior Application Architect at Farm Credit Canada.

Monika: How do your professional interests connect with your personal passions and advocacy? 

Lucia: I consider myself an innovator and software engineer, with a particular interest in artificial intelligence and system architecture in general. Like many of my transgender colleagues, I am committed to supporting my fellow friends and advocating for the transgender community, especially when opportunities arise to promote equal rights for all citizens of Canada. I also have a general interest in studies related to self-improvement, human behavior, and social interactions. If you want, I can also make a slightly more conversational versi
Monika: What inspired you to start writing your autobiography in the first place?

Lucia: When I first started writing my autobiography, I had no intention of publishing it publicly, but it was clear that I wanted to tell my life story. The effort proved to be therapeutic for me. At the time, my intent was to inform my immediate family, colleagues, and friends about my journey and my decision to transition from male to female.

Monika: Did you realize that your story could reach a wider audience beyond your personal circle?

Lucia: As I started telling my story, it became apparent that I had a message for the world as well. I thought it might interest the general public, and I also wanted to provide supporting information for transgender individuals. Even though the book focused primarily on the life of a transgender person, I aimed to tell a story that could inspire others to take on their own journey of self-discovery, self-improvement, self-love, and living authentically. A meaningful journey, no matter the challenges, is a gift for all of us.

Monika: How did your book evolve after its initial release?

Lucia: After releasing the first edition of my book in December 2014, I discovered a desire to bridge the gap between transgender individuals and the social stigma imposed by the general population. I aimed to step into the public's perspective, objectively explaining the reasons behind such a journey. I also wanted to tell a story that could capture the interest of a wider audience. As a result, the final version of my book was born, and the second edition was released in September 2015.

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Monika: How did writing your book help you personally during your transition?

Lucia: Writing my book was therapeutic and allowed me to plan my journey appropriately, realistically, and effectively. It helped me process difficult times in my life and bring closure to long-standing struggles related to my gender identity. The exercise was also helpful in preparing immediate family members, close friends, and colleagues.

Monika: In what ways did the experience of writing and planning your transition feel liberating?

Lucia: Yes, the experience was liberating for me, and my focus was primarily on achieving a better state of being. I learned the importance of having support while transitioning from family, friends, colleagues, doctors, psychiatrists, and others. I also realized that having a plan is essential, and having a backup plan is equally important.

Monika: What advice would you give to others about planning their transition?

Lucia: I see many transgender individuals struggle because they have not taken the time to prepare a plan for their transition. Planning for your transition, securing the support you need, and having a backup plan are essential to ensuring a successful journey.

Monika: How has your perspective on transformation and social perception changed over time? 

Lucia: I have learned that transformation from within, meaning psychological rather than purely physiological, goes far beyond physical changes. This is a key message of my book and the reason I describe transitioning as a gift for us all. The internal transformation is refreshing and liberating, and physical appearance matters much less to me now than it did before. I also discovered that people generally care far less than I initially thought, which can help new transgender individuals feel more at ease with coming out. Being scared is natural, but fear can also become a stumbling block that prevents us from moving forward.
Monika: When you began your transition and what prompted that decision?

Lucia: I came out and began my transition in February 2013, shortly after my separation, when I was 42 years old. For me, the transition to my new gender was not an instant process but rather a gradual journey that took many years. I chose to have several stages of coming out instead of doing it all at once.

Monika: How did you approach the process of coming out to the people around you?

Lucia: First, I sought support from my spouse, then from support groups, followed by my immediate family including my mother and children, then my physician and psychiatrist, and finally I came out at work and to the general public. The coming out process took over a year, though it can be shorter or longer for others depending on their comfort level.

Monika: What challenges did you face as you moved through your transition?

Lucia: Securing support and moving forward gradually was essential, and taking baby steps was okay. My journey toward my gender identity actually started between the ages of three and four, and it has been less than a year that I have been living full-time as a female. Transition is different for everyone; it may be difficult for some and less so for others. Each person needs to evaluate and decide the best way to come out for themselves. For me, my own hesitation and careful approach created many life challenges, which I discuss in my book. 

Monika: How important was support in helping you navigate the transition process?

Lucia: There is a lot to consider and plan before facing the world, and it can feel overwhelming at first. The process cannot be accomplished alone, and fortunately, I had support from groups, friends, family, psychiatrists, doctors, and specialists who helped me move forward in my journey.
Monika: During your transition, did you have any transgender role models who guided you through the process?

Lucia: I quickly surrounded myself with the people I needed to move forward. They provided the insight and support that were essential, offering guidance on the do's and don'ts of transitioning, explaining what is important, how to stay safe, and how to approach different aspects of the process. They have been great mentors and leaders, incredible supporters who I also consider role models.

Monika: How did you make use of their guidance while navigating your transition?

Lucia: I listened carefully to them so that I could learn and adapt quickly. I filtered the information I received and proceeded cautiously to avoid unnecessary risks. I captured every piece of advice thoughtfully, and while I prefer not to disclose their names without consent, they know who they are, and I never miss an opportunity to thank them for their effort. They are truly invaluable to me.
Monika: Are there transgender women you admire and respect today?

Lucia: I have many people to be thankful and grateful for, as I mentioned earlier. They are my supporters and role models. These supporters were invested in my success as well as their own, which distinguished them from others who tried to validate themselves by comparing themselves to others. This is where I applied my own filtering.

Monika: How did you decide who to accept into your life, and what challenges did that bring?

Lucia: As a result, I was very selective in deciding who I would accept in my life, and some resented me for it. I am okay with this; I made my choices, I can live with them, and I am sure they can too. All is good.

Monika: Are there particular groups of transgender individuals whose courage or choices you especially admire?

Lucia: Above all, the individuals who capture my heart are the younger ones who find the courage at such a young age to assume their identity. I admire them and believe they deserve recognition for their bravery and courage. We can learn so much from them, especially because I did not have their courage at that age. I also admire older transgender individuals who have chosen to embrace life authentically rather than coast along. They face the world and create meaningful lives, which I find very admirable. Then there is me, coming out in middle age, and I guess we are okay too, lol.
Monika: What part of coming out did you find the most challenging?

Lucia: For me, the hardest part was coming out at work and ensuring the security of my professional career. I remember having knots in my stomach for a week before I came out at work. Coming out to my children was also difficult and required careful consideration.
Monika: How would you describe the current situation of transgender women in Canada compared to other countries?

Lucia: I believe that in Canada, in comparison to other countries, we might fall behind or perhaps be ahead depending on which country we are comparing ourselves with. For some reason, transgender women seem to be more of a target for discrimination than transgender men. I want to understand this better and hope to study the behavior more in the future.

Monika: What challenges remain at the legislative and policy level for transgender individuals in Canada?

Lucia: When considering the federal government, it is curious to notice that we are lagging behind in adopting gender identity and gender expression in a human rights code for all Canadian citizens. Voting in favor of Bill C-279 would help, but until then, it is difficult for federal institutions to adopt policies that are supportive of transgender people. The debate over public washrooms still continues, which is baffling because I have to remain concerned about which washrooms I can use. Some provinces also still provide limited or no medical coverage for transgender individuals. Despite all the information available, we seem surprised that these issues still exist in today’s society.

Monika: How do you feel the general public perceives and interacts with transgender people?

Lucia: I wish that people would ask more questions rather than drawing invalid conclusions. This could lead to better understanding and greater support. Being supportive means showing it both directly and indirectly, and while this is not always consistent, human behavior and actions speak louder than words. Observing body language is a clear indication of someone’s comfort level when interacting with transgender people.

Monika: What social challenges or prejudices do transgender individuals still face in everyday life? 

Lucia: Transgender individuals must always stay on guard, and I admit that this is sad. One of my biggest frustrations is with strangers who cannot refrain from staring in public or even people who know me but refuse to acknowledge my existence. I understand that the problem lies with them, but it is still unpleasant and unnecessary. We have a long way to go with social stigma, taking baby steps at a time, but I remain confident that we will get there.
Monika: How well is the transgender community able to promote its own cause within the larger LGBT group?

Lucia: One thing is for sure, we are outnumbered by the LGB members. It is commendable that the LGB community takes us under their wings, but I am not sure there is much to promote within the LGBT group itself other than raising awareness of our community. The LGB group accepts us, but they do not always fully understand the "T." I do not see this as a problem within the group, but rather as an important distinction between LGB and T that needs recognition.

Monika: Do you think there is value in staying within the LGBT community for support and learning?

Lucia: Personally, I would prefer to remain part of the LGBT community and learn from the struggles of the LGB members so we can apply strategies to help the T group promote our own interests. However, the general population often confuses gender identity with sexual orientation. We cannot entirely blame them since the group has been defining rights based on sexual orientation for decades. Still, there is much we can learn from the experiences of the LGB community in gaining social acceptance abroad.

Monika: Should the transgender community ever consider advocating independently from the LGBT community?

Lucia: Although there is value in learning from the LGB community, I do sometimes fear being misrepresented or perceived as having special sexual orientation needs. The T group faces similar struggles and discrimination, but gender identity is distinct from sexual orientation and should be advocated as such. It may become necessary to stand on our own in the future to fully advocate for our rights and needs, recognizing that gender identity does not equate to sexual orientation and that our experiences are distinct.
Monika: How do you feel about the way transgender people are represented in films, newspapers, and books?

Lucia: There are many great stories of success for transgender individuals abroad. For safety reasons, we tend to be critical of our own community, and I wish we could embrace gender diversity more openly, both within our community and in the general public. Gender identity is not one size fits all, and it saddens me to see the ongoing struggle for acceptance abroad and especially within our own kind.

Monika: What changes would you like to see in media representation of transgender individuals? 

Lucia: I understand that we all have our aspirations and are doing our best to grow as individuals, but I would like to see more positive stories, films, newspapers, and books that embrace gender identity diversity. This is also a personal concern of mine because I believe that it will be difficult to gain broader acceptance in society if we cannot unite and work more cohesively as a community. Our success as a community depends on it.

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PART 2

 

All photos: courtesy of Lucia Richardson.

© 2015 - Monika Kowalska

Interview with Sandy Stone

Allucquére Rosanne “Sandy” Stone is an American academic, media theorist, author, and performance artist whose influence reaches far beyond any single discipline. Born in Jersey City around 1936 to a Jewish family of European immigrants, she grew up with a curiosity for knowledge that thrived outside conventional classrooms. After graduating early from high school, she audited courses with professors she admired, took classes at MIT, and worked at Bell Telephone Laboratories on early touch-tone telephone technology before earning a degree from St. John’s College in 1965. From the start, her path defied expectations, weaving together science, technology, and the arts in ways that would later define her career. In the late 1960s, Stone moved to New York City and began working as a recording engineer at the Record Plant, where she collaborated with some of the most iconic musicians of the era, including Mississippi John Hurt, The Byrds, Van Morrison, Graham Nash, and Jimi Hendrix. She often published under pseudonyms such as Sandy Fisher or Doc Storch. At the same time, she was publishing science fiction stories in The Magazine of Fantasy & Science Fiction and Galaxy Science Fiction. In the 1970s, after relocating to California and publicly beginning her gender transition, she became the sound engineer for Olivia Records, the pioneering women’s music label. It was during this time that she faced public attacks from Janice Raymond, whose book The Transsexual Empire targeted Stone by name and accused her of threatening feminist spaces, a controversy that would later shape Stone’s role as a central figure in transgender theory. 

Interview with Lady Dane Figueroa Edidi

Lady Dane Figueroa Edidi is an artist, activist, and visionary whose life and work defy boundaries. She is of Nigerian, Cuban, and Indigenous American heritage and has built a career as an actress, singer, dancer, writer, radio host, oracle, healer, and teacher. Known as the Ancient Jazz Priestess of Mother Africa, a title given to her for the timeless power of her performances, she has carried her ancestral legacy into every note she sings and every word she writes. Lady Dane is also a pioneer, becoming the first trans woman of color in Washington DC to publish a work of fiction, breaking barriers in literature while uplifting the voices of those too often silenced. Her novels, poetry, and cabaret performances reveal her devotion to storytelling as an act of resistance, remembrance, and love. Whether honoring her birthplace in Baltimore: A Love Letter, weaving spiritual narratives in Yemaya’s Daughters, or conjuring new magical worlds in her Ghetto Goddess Series, she demonstrates how fiction and poetry can both heal and empower. Her artistic vision is inseparable from her activism. Lady Dane serves as a leader in the Trans Women of Color Collective, one of the few organizations founded and led by Black trans women.

Interview with Crista Lynn

Crista Lynn is a video blogger who has been sharing her transition journey on YouTube, offering an unfiltered and honest look into her life as a transgender woman. She began her transition at the age of 22 and completed it within a year, including gender-affirming surgeries and cosmetic procedures, while navigating both personal discovery and societal expectations. Crista is known for her adventurous spirit, whether exploring waterfalls, deserts, or engaging in creative projects at home, and for her bold, sometimes shocking sense of humor, which she uses to connect with her audience and challenge conventional ideas about gender and identity. Beyond documenting her own experiences, she seeks to inspire others in the transgender community and beyond, showing that living authentically is both possible and empowering, and emphasizing that personal growth often comes through self-acceptance and courage. Crista is also an author, currently sharing her memoir, When Fantasies Are Fulfilled, through her videos while it undergoes the publication process, giving her audience a direct, performative insight into her life story. She often reflects on the pivotal moments of her transition with honesty and humor, showing both the triumphs and the struggles she faced along the way.

Interview with Elle Bradford

Elle Bradford is a stunning New York–based model, fashion maven, and YouTube video blogger who has captured hearts with her grace, honesty, and timeless style. A true modern woman of the city, Elle blends the fast-paced energy of New York with a thoughtful, classic aesthetic that sets her apart in today’s fashion world. As a transgender woman, she uses her online platform not only to document her personal journey but also to share her insights on beauty, style, and life in the city that never sleeps, creating a space that feels both aspirational and deeply relatable. Elle is known for her impeccable taste, particularly her love of Dolce & Gabbana’s signature print dresses, which she wears with a natural elegance that recalls old Hollywood glamour yet feels entirely fresh.

 

Her fashion philosophy, one of balance, mystery, and understated allure, reveals a woman who understands that style is both armor and self-expression. But what makes Elle truly magnetic is not just her look, but her voice: warm, candid, and unafraid to address the joys and challenges of transition with a rare combination of vulnerability and quiet strength. Whether she’s discussing the perfect lipstick shade, strolling through Manhattan with her beloved dog Isaac, or opening up about intimate aspects of her journey, Elle radiates authenticity and elegance. Her vlogs are more than beauty tutorials or fashion diaries, they are a window into the life of a woman defining success on her own terms and giving representation to a community still fighting for visibility. In doing so, Elle has become both a style icon and a thoughtful advocate, inspiring countless viewers with her story, her resilience, and her timeless vision of femininity.

Interview with Pauline Park

Pauline Park is a pioneering transgender activist whose life and work have left an enduring mark on both local and global movements for equality. Born in Korea in 1960 and adopted by European American parents, she grew up in Milwaukee before embarking on a distinguished academic path that took her from the University of Wisconsin–Madison to the London School of Economics and ultimately the University of Illinois, where she earned a Ph.D. in political science. Her scholarship was recognized with a Fulbright fellowship to France, where she conducted research on the Maastricht Treaty and met Senator William Fulbright himself. In New York City, Park became one of the most visible and influential voices in advancing transgender rights. She co-founded Queens Pride House, Iban/Queer Koreans of New York, and the New York Association for Gender Rights Advocacy, playing a central role in securing funding, drafting organizational bylaws, and building networks of support. Her leadership was instrumental in the passage of New York City’s transgender rights law in 2002 and in shaping guidelines for its enforcement, as well as ensuring that gender identity and expression were included in both citywide and statewide safe schools legislation.

 

Park’s activism has extended far beyond legislative efforts. In 2005, she made history as the first openly transgender grand marshal of the New York City Pride March. She has been recognized as one of the most influential LGBT Asian icons, a leading transgender advocate in New York, and a role model celebrated on Transgender Day of Remembrance. Her visibility and advocacy have also been documented through films such as Envisioning Justice: The Journey of a Transgendered Woman and Coming Full Circle: The Journey of a Transgendered Korean Adoptee. Her work has taken her across the globe, from speaking at the Queer Korea Festival before a crowd of more than 35,000 to joining the first US LGBTQ delegation tour of Palestine. Whether through activism, scholarship, or public visibility, Pauline Park continues to stand as a vital figure in the ongoing struggle for human rights, bringing together her experiences as a Korean adoptee, a transgender woman, and an advocate for justice.

Interview with Jennell Jaquays

Jennell Jaquays is a legendary figure in the world of role-playing and video games, whose creativity and vision have shaped the landscape of both tabletop and digital gaming for nearly five decades. She first rose to prominence in the late 1970s with groundbreaking Dungeons & Dragons modules such as Dark Tower and Caverns of Thracia, adventures that remain celebrated classics for their depth, innovation, and storytelling. Her career quickly expanded into the emerging video game industry, where she became a pioneering designer and artist at companies like Coleco, TSR, id Software, and Ensemble Studios. Along the way, she contributed to some of the most iconic titles ever produced, leaving an indelible mark on the medium and helping to define the role of game designers as creative visionaries. Jennell’s professional path has been extraordinary, moving seamlessly from pen-and-paper adventures to the digital worlds of Doom, Quake, and Age of Empires. She built and led some of the earliest multidisciplinary teams in video game development, demonstrating not only her artistry but also her ability to innovate at a structural level within the industry.

Interview with Micheline Montreuil

Micheline Anne Hélène Montreuil is a remarkable Canadian lawyer, professor, writer, radio host, trade unionist, and politician whose life and career reflect both intellectual curiosity and resilience. Born under the sign of Gemini and the Dragon, she pursued extensive studies in law, management, and economics in Quebec, Winnipeg, Ottawa, and Paris, eventually establishing herself as a lawyer, management consultant, professor, and lecturer. Alongside her academic and professional work, she authored numerous books and articles on law, business, and management, showing her wide-ranging expertise. Micheline also became known as a speaker on finance and banking, a radio hostess, and a member of many boards, while continuing her teaching career at the University of Quebec in Rimouski. Her personal journey has been no less extraordinary. Since 1998, she has lived openly as a woman, fighting tirelessly for transgender rights in Canada.

 

Her legal battles, which went as far as the Supreme Court, eventually contributed to reforms that made it easier for transgender people in Quebec to change their legal names and gender markers without being forced into medical requirements. She has also challenged discrimination in the workplace and was the first transgender woman to be nominated as an electoral candidate for a major political party in Canada, representing the New Democratic Party in 2007. Outside of her professional and activist commitments, Micheline embraces life with vitality and passion. She enjoys sports such as swimming, diving, tennis, and badminton, while also cherishing cultural activities like theater, museums, and cinema. Known for her elegance, humor, and determination, she proudly calls herself the “Princess of Gemini and the Daughter of the Dragon,” a reflection of both strength and spirit. Her story is not only about breaking barriers but also about living authentically and encouraging others to do the same. Today it is my great pleasure and honor to speak with Micheline Montreuil.

Interview with Yuni Carey

Yuni Carey is an American model, dancer, and beauty pageant queen of Cuban descent, known not only for her striking beauty and magnetic stage presence but also for her resilience and spirit. Born in 1981 in Santa Clara, Cuba, Yuni moved to the United States as a child, where she was lovingly raised by her grandparents, whom she calls her parents. America became the place where she could fully realize her identity and pursue the life she had always dreamed of. With a deep passion for fashion, beauty, and performance, Yuni began her modeling career in Los Angeles in 2004. Her charisma quickly caught attention, and she soon found herself immersed in the pageant world, where she truly flourished. In 2006, she won the coveted Queen of the Universe title, marking her as a rising star among transgender beauty queens.

 

Her pageant career includes multiple accolades, most notably two appearances at the prestigious Miss International Queen pageant in Thailand. In 2011, she placed in the Top 10 and was crowned Miss Photogenic, while in 2014 she returned to earn the titles of 2nd Runner-Up Best Talent and Miss Congeniality, charming judges and audiences alike. Yuni is celebrated not only for her elegance but also for her sincerity, humor, and warmth. She brings fierce glamour to the runway but remains grounded in her values: self-love, compassion, and authenticity. Outside the pageant world, she dedicates herself to mentoring young transgender girls preparing for competitions, sharing her knowledge and uplifting the next generation of queens. As a proud trans woman, Yuni has built her life on strength and perseverance. Without a roadmap or role model to follow, she created her own path guided by faith, determination, and the power of a Mariah Carey ballad. Today, she uses her story to inspire others, reminding us that dreams are real and that beauty begins with the courage to be yourself.

Interview with Sheala Dawn Reinertson

Sheala Dawn Reinertson is a woman of strength, resilience, and compassion whose journey reflects both personal courage and a deep commitment to helping others. At 33, she is an advanced patient care technician, a devoted wife, and a proud mother, balancing her family life with her studies in nursing school as she builds a career in healthcare. Before embracing her true self, Sheala spent eight years serving in the US Navy, an experience she looks back on with pride and gratitude. Her service shaped her discipline, her sense of responsibility, and her drive to contribute meaningfully to the lives of others. Sheala’s path as a transgender woman began at the age of 31, when she finally understood and embraced the feelings she had carried with her since childhood. Transitioning came with emotional challenges, yet she found it far easier than continuing to live in silence.

 

Her journey is also tied to advocacy, as she benefited from The Name Change Project in Pittsburgh, which connects transgender people with volunteer attorneys. For Sheala, this program was not just helpful but essential, making her legal transition possible and more affordable. She now speaks openly about how important legal support is for transgender people, from name changes to the defense of basic civil rights. Sheala’s story is one of authenticity, perseverance, and love. She is grateful for the support of her wife Megan, whom she calls her rock, and who has stood beside her through every difficult moment. Sheala’s voice is also one of encouragement to other transgender women struggling with dysphoria, as she reminds them that it does get better and that small steps forward can make all the difference. In sharing her experiences, she hopes to bring light, awareness, and understanding to others, while also showing that acceptance and love can be the strongest sources of strength.

Interview with Tela La'Raine Love

Tela La’Raine Love is a remarkable voice in the transgender community, a woman whose journey reflects resilience, transformation, and a refusal to be silenced. Born and raised in New Orleans, she began her transition as a teenager in the early 1990s, a time when visible transgender role models were almost nonexistent. Her path was filled with obstacles, including addiction, sex work, living with HIV, and surviving without family or institutional support. Yet she transformed those struggles into a purpose-driven life, determined to ensure that no other young trans girl would be forced to endure the same hardships in silence. Today Tela is an activist, minister, peer counselor, mentor, artist, student, HIV prevention specialist, facilitator, video blogger, and co-founder of New Legacy Ministries. She views herself not only as a woman with trans experience but as someone committed to making her story a source of guidance and hope.

 

Her advocacy is deeply rooted in the belief that visibility saves lives and that sharing one’s truth can shift the narrative for generations to come. From the devastation of Hurricane Katrina, which she credits with saving her life by placing her in new circles of affirmation and mentorship, to her ongoing work in community building and ministry, Tela embodies the strength of living authentically. Her story, which she often describes as colorful enough to resemble a mix of animated films and spiritual dramas, is both deeply personal and universally inspiring. With her upcoming documentary “Disappear or Die: A Southern Black Trans Experience” and her continuous work on national advisory boards, Tela La’Raine Love continues to prove that her voice is not only powerful but necessary.

Interview with Jackie Enx

Jackie Enx is a living embodiment of rhythm, rebellion, and reinvention. With sticks in her hands and fire in her heart, she has spent decades behind the drum kit powering some of rock’s loudest, grittiest, and most unfiltered anthems. As a founding member of Warrior and Rhino Bucket, Jackie helped define a sound that was unapologetically raw, unvarnished, and full of attitude. From the smoky clubs of Los Angeles to the world’s biggest stages, she has played with the kind of passion that makes drumming not just a skill, but an act of storytelling. Yet music is only one verse in her extraordinary song. Jackie’s fearless voice carried her into the world of broadcasting, where she became the co-host of The Queer Edge with Jack E. Jett, a groundbreaking radio show that was as irreverent as it was insightful. With her trademark humor and razor-sharp perspective, she dissected pop culture, poked fun at hypocrisy, and gave a microphone to voices often unheard.

 

She continues to inspire through her teaching, guiding young and old musicians alike with patience, humor, and the wisdom of someone who has lived every beat of her art. But perhaps what makes Jackie’s story truly extraordinary is the courage with which she has lived it. Her transition in the 1990s was not a carefully choreographed reinvention, but a leap into authenticity at a time when the world offered little understanding. She navigated the music industry, the media, and her personal life with the same fierce independence that once drove her drumming. Today, she stands as a testament to living honestly and loudly, to embracing identity not as a label but as a melody that never stops evolving. Jackie Enx is more than a musician, performer, or radio personality, she is proof that art, when lived fully, can become an act of defiance and grace at the same time. Whether on stage, on air, or behind the drum kit, Jackie continues to remind the world that life, like rock and roll, is best played loud, proud, and entirely on your own terms.

Interview with Mey Rude

Mey Rude is a voice that has shaped how we see transgender visibility in media. As the Trans Editor at Autostraddle, she has been at the forefront of documenting, analyzing, and celebrating the rise of trans representation in film, television, music, and literature. A proud transgender Latina, lesbian, and self-described comic book nerd, Mey lives in Idaho, where she continues to write passionately about the intersections of identity, culture, and activism. Her work reflects both her sharp insight into the entertainment industry and her deep empathy for the struggles and triumphs of trans women everywhere. Beyond her editorial work, Mey’s own story, marked by resilience, community-building, and a commitment to authenticity, mirrors the broader fight for trans visibility and acceptance. In this conversation, she opens up about her journey, her inspirations, and her hopes for the future of transgender representation. Mey’s career has coincided with a pivotal moment in transgender visibility, a time when shows like Orange Is the New Black, Transparent, and Pose have brought trans stories into mainstream conversation.

 

Through her editorials and commentary, she has challenged the entertainment industry to go beyond surface-level inclusion and to give trans people the power to tell their own stories. Her voice has become a guiding one for readers seeking not only representation but also a critical lens on how that representation is shaped. Whether discussing the lack of trans actors in leading roles or celebrating trans artists breaking new ground, Mey balances critique with optimism, always emphasizing progress without losing sight of the work still to be done. Outside her professional life, Mey’s story is one of courage and conviction. Coming out and transitioning in her mid-twenties, she faced isolation in her hometown and a scarcity of trans resources, yet she found strength in online communities and the growing visibility of role models like Laverne Cox and Janet Mock. Her experiences have shaped her belief in the power of connection and self-expression, values that shine through in her writing. As both a journalist and an activist, Mey Rude continues to inspire others to live openly, create fearlessly, and remind the world that trans women belong not only in the narrative but also at the heart of it.

Interview with Nicola Jane Chase

Nicola Jane Chase is a British writer originally from near Liverpool who now calls New York her home. Nicola has lived a vibrant and varied life, from traveling the world as a globe-trotting DJ and radio personality to documenting her personal journey as a transgender woman in her acclaimed autobiography, Tea and Transition, published in 2015. She describes herself as a supremely content New York woman with a transgender history, someone who has navigated the challenges of transitioning later in life while embracing humor, resilience, and self-discovery along the way. Her experiences highlight the importance of communication, acceptance, and perseverance, whether in relationships with family and friends or in facing societal prejudices. Beyond her writing, Nicola is a thoughtful observer of the transgender experience in media and society, offering insights into visibility, representation, and the nuances of identity.

 

Passionate about travel, style, and storytelling, she continues to share her journey to inspire and support others, demonstrating that life can be full, adventurous, and authentic at any stage. Nicola began her transition in her 40s, guided by her life experience and the support of friends and family who embraced her as a woman. She emphasizes that the process of becoming herself involved both personal growth and public visibility, from working on her voice to navigating the challenges of dating and social perception. Her story is infused with a distinctly British sense of humor, reminding readers that transgender experiences can be joyful and unexpected, as well as difficult. Nicola encourages honesty, self-reflection, and communication, offering reassurance to those struggling with gender dysphoria that they are not alone and that every journey is unique. As she promotes her book and explores potential projects in television and film, Nicola remains committed to using her voice to foster understanding, acceptance, and inspiration for others in the transgender community and beyond.

Interview with Bianca Leigh

Bianca Leigh’s journey to becoming a celebrated actress and advocate for transgender rights is a story of persistence, passion, and breaking boundaries. Born in 1962 in Willingboro, New Jersey, Bianca was captivated by the world of performance from an early age. Growing up, she found inspiration in the glamour of Hollywood’s golden era, idolizing actresses like Lucille Ball, Carole Lombard, Rita Hayworth, and Barbara Stanwyck. These icons sparked her desire to perform, even if the world she saw on screen didn’t yet reflect someone like her. As a child, Bianca’s love for classic films was matched only by her aspirations to be a part of that magical world. But it wasn’t just the glitz and glamour that drew her in; it was the chance to escape and tell stories, stories that didn’t yet include the complexity of her own identity. When Bianca set her sights on acting, it was clear that this was not just a passing interest. She was determined to make it her life.

Interview with Kayla Ward: Update

Monika: Hello Kayla! It has been 18 months since our first interview. What has changed in your life since then?

Kayla: I moved to Dallas, Texas, and began chasing my dreams of modeling and acting.

Monika: You look absolutely stunning! What is the secret of your beauty?

Kayla: Luck with genetics is about the only answer I can honestly give. I’d like to say it is due to eating healthy, consistent workouts, and always getting enough sleep but that doesn’t happen like it should.

Interview with Nika Fontaine

Monika: Today it is my pleasure and honor to interview Nika Fontaine, an inspirational Canadian artist based in Berlin, Germany, coffin designer, curator of the Kitsch Lexikon and Kitschypedia. Her works consist of glitter paintings, sculptures, video, music, photography, and performance art. Hello Nika!

Nika: Hello Monika! Thank you for the invitation, your blog played a big role in my process of acceptance!

Monika: Thank you! Could you say a few words about yourself?
Nika: I very much like your introduction, maybe I can just make it more precise. I am French Canadian and I have been living in Berlin for almost seven years now. I started the transition process one year and a half ago.

Interview with Emma Martin

Monika: Today it is my pleasure and honor to interview Emma Martin, a British IT consultant, clinical psychotherapist, and transgender activist. Hello Emma!

Emma: Hi Monika. Thank you for inviting me.

Monika: Could you say a few words about yourself?

Emma: What can I say? Well, I’ve been married to the love of my life Linda for 37 years, spent most of my working life in IT with various companies ending up as an IT Manager for a major food manufacturer, then got a bit fed up with IT and trained as a psychotherapist and hypnotherapist. Now, retired, I consider myself to be a full-time writer. I’m also teaching myself 3D graphics design. As to hobbies, we have two retired greyhounds that will soon be the stars of a series of children’s stories I’m writing.

Interview with Marisa Allen

Monika: Today it is my pleasure and honor to interview Marisa Allen, a Belgian revue producer, and performer, director, and creator of the award-winning show ballet "The New Sensations". She has been The Designer of the Stars for more than 10 years. Hello Marisa!

Marisa: Hello dear Monika!

Monika: You look fantastic, Marisa. What is the secret of your beauty?

Marisa: I think it is love and happiness… it makes me glow.

Interview with Koko Jones

Monika: Today it is my pleasure and honor to interview Koko Jones, an American activist and a voice in the trans community, jazz percussionist and band leader that played for such artists as Whitney Houston, The Isley Brothers, Winard Harper, and Reggie Workman, the author of her newest album “Who's That Lady”. Hello Koko!

Koko: Hi Monika!

Monika: Could you say a few words about yourself?

Koko: Well I would say that I’m a musician, writer, composer, producer, educator, Buddhist, a parent, and a trans woman of color.

Interview with Jessica O’Donnell

Monika: Today it is my pleasure and honor to interview Jessica O’Donnell formerly known as Jessica Cummings. She is an American transgender activist, video blogger, former co-host of Transition Radio. Hello Jessica!

Jessica: Hi Monika! Thank you for providing me with this opportunity to be a part of such a positive outlet for our community. I am truly honored to be included in this!

Monika: Could you say a few words about yourself?

Jessica: Sure! I am a 40-year-old transgender woman who like others has struggled with my gender and identity my entire life. When I started daycare and through 1st grade, I thought I was a girl but learned very quickly that if I wanted to be accepted by others I had to act like a boy.

Interview with Stephanie Postma

Monika: Today’s interview will be with Stephanie Postma, a young Dutch video blogger that documents her transition on YouTube. Hello Stephanie!

Stephanie: Hello Monika!

Monika: Could you say a few words about yourself?

Stephanie: I am a 22-year-old female and student of beauty and wellness in the last year.

Monika: Why did you decide to share your transition details on YouTube?

Stephanie: I was young and I thought I might be an inspiration for other young transgender ladies. I was only 14 when I uploaded my first YouTube video.

Monika: At which stage of the transition are you right now?

Stephanie: I’m finished! I would really like a boob job in a couple of years but for the time being it is enough. I am happy with myself and that is the most important issue for me.

Interview with Bright Daffodil

Monika: Today it is my pleasure and honor to interview Bright Daffodil, a British woman born intersex, a participant in many documentaries and interviews. Hello Bright Daffodil!

Bright Daffodil: NAMASTE Monika an absolute pleasure to meet you.

Monika: Could you say a few words about yourself?
Bright Daffodil: I believe myself to be a Pleiadian, a star seed here in London, in human terms I’m an intersex person, a transgendered woman, but I’m at a stage in my life where gender to me is nothing more than the others' perception. I don’t see myself as any gender anymore, just as a soul having a human experience.
I think I have transcended gender to be really honest. For my soul, it’s easier to live a female experience however I don’t think I’m female or male in knowing my true self I am merely an organic being.

Interview with Victoria Divine

Monika: Today it is my pleasure and honor to interview Victoria Divine, a film director, producer, and performer from Argentina. Hello Victoria!

Victoria: Hello Monika, how are you doing?

Monika: Could you say a few words about yourself?

Victoria: I’d like to say that I am someone in constant urge for transforming myself and not just physically when I say ‘transforming’. I mean growing up, learning, discovering. I started to express my gender identity in Argentina, Buenos Aires during the 1970s.

I have been fascinated with trans women since an early age. At that time perhaps I didn’t know that I was one of them but over the years I realized that those spectacular women I used to see were a part of who I am.