For more than two decades, Honey West has been captivating audiences with her dynamic performances, razor-sharp wit, and powerful voice. Since her 1990 debut in the one-woman show A Taste of Honey, she has become a beloved figure in Chicago’s cabaret scene and beyond. With two After Dark Awards for Outstanding Cabaret Entertainer and numerous other accolades to her name, Honey West has proven herself as both a musical powerhouse and a comedic gem. Her career has spanned an impressive array of stages, from intimate cabaret venues like Gentry and Hotel Allegro to large-scale performances at Park West and Cabaret Metro. She has performed on cruise ships, at awards shows, and for countless fundraisers supporting the LGBTQ+ community and AIDS organizations. Her talent has even led her to share the stage with icons,she appeared on Oprah as a backup singer for Cyndi Lauper, was crowned Ms. Morton Downey Jr. on the controversial host’s talk show, and even entertained Julie Andrews and the Victor/Victoria cast at their opening night gala.
Beyond cabaret, Honey West has left her mark on the theatrical world, starring in productions such as Vampire Lesbians of Sodom alongside her dear friend Alexandra Billings, Tony N’ Tina’s Wedding, Diva Diaries, The Musical, and Applause. Her fearless performances in groundbreaking shows like Dirty Dreams of a Clean-Cut Kid,one of the first musicals to address the AIDS epidemic,demonstrate her commitment to using art as a platform for change. She has also lent her talents to film, starring in Velvets, which was screened at the Chicago Lesbian & Gay International Film Festival, and recording the love theme for the Judy Tenuta film Butch Camp.
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| Honey West- Nearness of you (YouTube) |
In addition to her artistic achievements, Honey West has been a dedicated advocate for LGBTQ+ rights. She has used her career not only to entertain but also to educate and break down barriers for trans performers. Her longtime friend and fellow performer Alexandra Billings once said, "Honey’s never said no to an AIDS benefit and never said no to a charity. She’s always been there, free of charge and giving in her spirit and her time." Her dedication to her community was officially recognized in 2012 when she was inducted into Chicago’s Gay and Lesbian Hall of Fame. Honey West’s journey has been one of resilience, reinvention, and authenticity. Starting as an entertainer, she eventually embraced her identity and transitioned at 41, proving that it is never too late to live as one’s true self. Her story is one of courage,turning obstacles into opportunities and transforming a once-overlooked identity into an unshakable force of artistic expression.
Monika: Hello Honey! Welcome to my blog!
Honey: Hi Monika!
Monika: Your career spans decades and multiple performance platforms. How would you introduce yourself to someone who has never heard of you before?
Honey: Sure, I have a degree in Musical Theater from Indiana University. I have been singing and acting professionally for the last 33 years. I traveled with cruise ships and resorts fresh out of college and finally settled in Chicago where I live now. Over the years, I’ve had the chance to perform in an incredible range of venues, from intimate cabaret settings to grand theatrical productions. Chicago became my creative home, where I’ve built a career blending comedy, music, and storytelling.
Monika: Was there a specific moment or experience that made you realize performing was your true calling, or was it something you always knew deep down?
Honey: [smiles] I don’t remember a time I didn’t dream about it. They say I came out of the womb humming a tune. As a kid, I was always putting on little shows for my family, using a hairbrush as a microphone. By the time I was in school, I was already sneaking into the theater department, watching rehearsals, and imagining myself on stage.
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| Honey West with Alexandra Billings (YouTube) |
Monika: You've performed in many incredible places throughout your career. Could you share some of the most memorable venues and shows you've been a part of?
Honey: I got the chance as a young entertainer to live and work in Tahiti for American Hawaii Cruises. I still remember the beauty and the people fondly. In Chicago, I had a cabaret act that lasted for 13 years, and some of the people that I met during those years are still friends today. I also had the privilege of performing at Park West and Cabaret Metro, which were thrilling experiences. And of course, sharing the stage with icons like Cyndi Lauper on Oprah was an unforgettable highlight of my journey.
Monika: In addition to singing, you've also built a strong presence in the theater world. Was acting always part of your artistic vision, or did it come later in your career?
Monika: In addition to singing, you've also built a strong presence in the theater world. Was acting always part of your artistic vision, or did it come later in your career?
Honey: I have acted in many shows here in Chicago, and I am always looking for the next opportunity to join a new theater family. Theater has given me the chance to step into so many different lives and stories, which I find incredibly fulfilling. One of my favorite experiences was performing in Vampire Lesbians of Sodom alongside my dear friend Alexandra Billings, it was a wild and wonderful ride!
Monika: Many performers in the LGBTQ+ community, especially transgender women, take part in beauty pageants. Have you ever considered competing, or do you prefer to admire the art of pageantry from afar?
Honey: Well actually, I have never been in the pageant system. I stand amazed by the girls who do participate in pageants. The work and dedication they pour into a crown makes it well deserved. I’ve had the privilege of knowing and performing alongside some incredibly talented titleholders, and their grace and poise are truly inspiring. While I may not have a sash or crown of my own, I like to think I bring a little sparkle to the stage in my own way!
Monika: Confidence and beauty often go hand in hand, creating a sense of empowerment. Do you feel that your presence and charisma give you a certain influence, whether on stage or in everyday life?
Honey: Well, seriously, I never really thought of myself as beautiful. I was a late bloomer and always felt awkward. I have been known to flirt with a handsome man… lol. The rush and power that I feel in those moments are fantastic. But beyond looks, I think true empowerment comes from embracing who you are and owning your presence in any space. When I step on stage, I feel like I can command the room, not just with beauty but with energy and confidence.
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| Courtesy of Honey West. |
Monika: During your transition, did you have any transgender role models or figures who inspired you, especially within the entertainment industry?
Honey: There are certainly many beautiful, strong trans women here in Chicago, but because I sang and acted, I didn’t feel the kinship with them that I would have liked. My best friend, Alexandra Billings, came from the pageant world and then went on to sing and act. She was my rock and support. As much support as I had in Chicago, I still did not identify as trans until I was 41 years old. I had it buried so deep I almost never found it… lol. Looking back, I realize how much visibility and representation truly matter. If I had seen more trans women in theater and cabaret when I was younger, I might have recognized myself sooner.
All the photos: courtesy of Honey West.
Monika: What was the hardest thing about your coming out, and how did you navigate the emotional and physical changes during that time?
Honey: Going through a second adolescence. My body changing and emotions flaring up. Adolescence was hard enough the first time around. Doing it again in my 40’s was no joke…lol. I felt like I was on an emotional rollercoaster, with everything being more intense than I had expected. It was both overwhelming and liberating to finally embrace my true self, but it wasn’t without its challenges.
Monika: What is your perspective on the current situation of transgender women in American society, especially in terms of media representation and social acceptance?
Honey: I am shocked about how quickly things are moving. It is so nice to see strong, smart, beautiful sisters in the media telling our collective truth. I am proud and humbled by their strength. However, I also recognize that while there is progress, there’s still so much work to be done to ensure that all transgender women, especially those of color, are seen and heard. It’s important that we keep pushing for visibility and equality, even as we celebrate our victories.
Monika: We are seeing more transgender women come out, and many of them are gaining recognition in their respective fields. From Lana Wachowski in film directing to Jenna Talackova in modeling, Kate Bornstein in academia, Laura Jane Grace in music, and Candis Cayne in acting, there seems to be a growing visibility. Are you also witnessing this trend and how does it make you feel?
Honey: I am so excited by these women and the way the world is embracing them. I never thought it would be possible to see this in my lifetime. Their visibility is so important for future generations, showing that it’s possible to be authentic and successful in whatever field you choose. It also sends a powerful message that transgender women can break barriers and thrive in society.
Monika: Do you think transgender rights could be the new frontier in the ongoing fight for human rights, similar to how the LGBTQ+ movement has gained momentum?
Honey: It already is. “Orange is the New Black” and Tran is the new gay…lol. Transgender rights are becoming more central to the conversation, and people are starting to recognize that our struggles are part of a broader human rights movement. As society evolves, the fight for equality and acceptance of transgender people will continue to be a key focus.
Monika: Are you involved in politics or any advocacy campaigns? Do you believe transgender women can play a significant role in shaping political change and policy?
Honey: Just recently I was asked to participate in the “March on Springfield” Illinois state capital. We were there to march for equality and gay marriage. I co-emceed the event and was very honored to do so. I have participated in almost every cause and charity that has come through Chicago in the last 20 some years. I believe that transgender women have a unique perspective and voice that can influence positive change in politics. As we become more visible, we are proving that our voices matter and can contribute to the broader fight for justice.
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| Courtesy of Honey West. |
Monika: How important is love to you, and what challenges have you faced in finding it, particularly as a transgender woman?
Honey: I haven’t been as successful as I would like in that department. I am waiting for the guy who is not afraid to be with me in public. Unfortunately, men who love us have to go through their own coming out process. It can be frustrating, but I believe that true love takes time and mutual understanding. I’m hopeful that the right person will come along, someone who will embrace me for who I truly am, inside and out.
Monika: How would you describe your relationship with fashion? Are there any particular styles, colours, or trends you gravitate toward, and do you have any favorite outfits you wear regularly?
Honey: I love fashion but I depend on my friends to help me. I wish I had more of a flair myself. They say it takes a village… smile. I enjoy experimenting with bold colours and unique accessories, but I always feel more confident when I have a friend’s advice. Fashion is such a great form of self-expression, and I’m always looking for ways to step outside of my comfort zone.
Monika: Many transgender women have shared their stories through memoirs. Have you ever considered writing a book or creating another type of project to document your journey and experiences?
Honey: I have been writing my thoughts and ideas down for many years and I am looking to turn it into a theater piece about my journey and discovering my gender. It’s been a cathartic process, and I think a performance would allow me to connect with people in a unique and powerful way. I hope that by sharing my story, I can inspire others to embrace their truth and find strength in their own experiences.
Monika: What is your next step in your journey, and where do you envision yourself in the next 5-7 years, both personally and professionally?
Honey: I am putting together a new cabaret act with music that is original or that really touches me personally. It’s something I’ve been passionate about for a while, and I’m excited to share this new creative direction. In the next few years, I hope to continue growing as an artist and make a bigger impact with my performances, while also focusing on my personal growth and happiness.
Monika: What advice would you give to transgender women who are considering a career in the entertainment industry? Are there any key lessons you've learned along the way?
Honey: Most people who are successful in the entertainment field do it because they have to, not because they want to. If it is your passion, then run with it and never let someone crush your dreams. It's a tough industry, but the drive and determination to succeed will always carry you through. Stay true to your authentic self and don't be afraid to take risks, as they can often lead to the most rewarding opportunities.
Monika: Honey, thank you for the interview!
All the photos: courtesy of Honey West.
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